Great first fate - except for one issue

[Serg897]

I just got back from a fantastic first date, got a kiss, etc...except for one nagging issue in my mind

She lives in the city. On the way back to her place she said.

"hey drop me off at the 7/11, I want to get a snack for home". The 7/11 was about two blocks from her place.

I said fine. I dropped her off. Got another kiss (second time), etc. Then drove away.

Then I thought...****, I problably should just have waited for her, shouldnt I?

I decided to text her to make sure she got home alright.
her reply: "just walked in the door. Thanks for dropping me"

Was she being sarcastic or am I overthinking this? Did I blow it? I feel to make it an issue at this point would be introducing drama - I just hope I didnt cause too much damage with this, if at all.

 

[Serg897]

yeah she said "drop me off at the seven eleven" - and I didnt think about it, I just did what she told me. It was only after I dropped her off and drove away that the thought occured to me.

I dont think its enough reason for her to stop answering my calls or start flaking, her interest was high to begin with, and I honestly think the rest of the date went perfectly (I believe I am a good judge), its just this one NAGGING issue that is on my mind now - its going to bother me for the next few days, until I call her again. I almost want to send her a text about it tomorrow, but its probably a stupid idea.

The bright side is, Im worrying about another girl now, and not my ex that broke up with me a few weeks ago.

 

[FreD_BeaR]

yeah she said "drop me off at the seven eleven" - and I didnt think about it, I just did what she told me. It was only after I dropped her off and drove away that the thought occured to me.

I dont think its enough reason for her to stop answering my calls or start flaking, her interest was high to begin with, and I honestly think the rest of the date went perfectly (I believe I am a good judge), its just this one NAGGING issue that is on my mind now - its going to bother me for the next few days, until I call her again. I almost want to send her a text about it tomorrow, but its probably a stupid idea.

The bright side is, Im worrying about another girl now, and not my ex that broke up with me a few weeks ago.

yeah man deffinately dont harp on it or over analyze things or itll be your downfall. And dont text her about this incident. Just act like nothing went wrong, especially since you already texted her to make sure she got home. wait a few days, if she dosnt contact you first, give her a shout.

 

[Serg897]

Im definitely the type to overanalyze - Im a perfectionist, and I like every detail to be flawless

I just have a hard time seeing how she WASNT sarcastic with her "Thanks for dropping me" text. Its just a nagging part of a perfect evening - the first kiss was great, she repeatedly mentioned things we could do next and that she had fun, I could see that she was having a good time (we went out dancing).

Im thinking about sending her something this afternoon like "Sorry you had to walk yesterday. Maybe next time I'll actually think about dropping you at your place - if you're nice to me "

 

[katatonia]

The only thing you did wrong was messaging her if she got home alright. She asked you to drop her off at 7/11 so you did... it's her problem if she wanted a lift home, she should've asked.

 

[Serg897]

The only thing you did wrong was messaging her if she got home alright. She asked you to drop her off at 7/11 so you did... it's her problem if she wanted a lift home, she should've asked.

I like this way of thinking too. Maybe I'll just wait a few days.

 

[horaholic]

Im thinking about sending her something this afternoon like "Sorry you had to walk yesterday. Maybe next time I'll actually think about dropping you at your place - if you're nice to me "

Dont do that! That will lower your value. She asked to be dropped off there. You dropped her off there. Quit worrying about it. And if she doesnt call you, dont assume its cuz of that.

If you do decide to bring it up, shift it back on her. Be like "Why didnt you want me to bring you all the way home the other night? Scared I would be too much to resist on your doorstep? You made me feel like a jerk just leaving you at 7-11 like that."

If she has an issue, just stand your ground "You SAID drop you off at 7-11. You didnt say 'can we stop at 7-11 before dropping me home?' which I would be more than happy to do, so dont make me the bad guy."