"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Great Expectations

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(Warning: May contain spoilers)

I've been watching patches of this movie (mainly the first half). Does anyone know what the film is supposed to be about? All I got was some bum-like kid hanging out with a crazy girl. I thought it was originally that secret garden film until I saw the actual title.

But a few years ago I heard reviews about how great this movie is, etc etc. So what exactly makes this movie so great? I'm sure theres plenty of movies about bums hanging out with crazy chicks, and none of them are so good.

And did Shakespeare write the original book for this movie or something? The version I saw was set in modern times, so unless Shakespeare also invented the time machine, I don't get it?


(Feel free to put in spoilers, I'm not likely to watch the rest of the movie again)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Didn't see the movie but I read the book.

Pip is an AFC. Then he turns into a DJ.
 

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Charles ****ens wrote great expectations.

Edit : Hahaha....it won't let ny type d!ckens.
 

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Great book... Charles D!ckens is the man. Jules Verne also created some very suave characters. Anybody remember the rich guy from "Around the World in Eighty Days" ?... Phileas Fogg I think his name was. Although he was a bit of a hermit when the story first starts, he does some pretty suave stuff later in the book.


By the way, Pip never becomes a DJ... he stays nice and Estella finally comes around after she's been used up (and knocked up) by some other jerk later in life. Hence the phrase, "nice guys finish last." Not best--last. Nice guys usually end up with the jerks leftovers.


Remember Forest Gump!?
 

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I thought the guy's name was Finn? I must've watched a different version - it was with Gyneth Paltrow and some unknown actor.

Whats up with the girl? The old woman mentioned how she hates men and trained the little girl to break their hearts or something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
All I got was some bum-like kid hanging out with a crazy girl.
That sounds like Drew Barrymore in "Mad Love". Good movie, but weird.
 

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Re: Re: Great Expectations

Originally posted by diablo
That sounds like Drew Barrymore in "Mad Love". Good movie, but weird.
yeah, that was a weird but good movie.

Charles D1ckens is a confusing author. Honestly, whenever i've read any of his books its so hard to follow and so was that movie Great Expectations. It's good, but you really have to pay attention. Or get the Cliffs Notes for the book.
 

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I guess that we should start a thread on who our favorite classical authors are (been done before... but what the hell). Mine is Jules Verne.


The old woman, (Estella's aunt I believe she was, been too long since I've read it) was left by her husband on their wedding day. From that day on she hated all men, and trained young Estella to seduce and destroy men by using Pip (or finn, I can't remember what his name was now) as a toy. Pip falls in love with Estella and never gets over her, while Estella never really cares about him because she's been trained since childhood to be a heartless b!tch.


By the way, Ethan Hawke is a very well known actor nowadays. Read the book and then watch it again.
 
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the point was supposed to be that all great expectations lead to great disappointments. a very sad tale, that one was. bitter and empty, yet magical and beautiful imagery, to further the feeling of disappointment and loss i suppose.
 

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Gee, all I got out of it was a guy hanging out with a girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"He who expects no gratitude shall never be disappointed."



diplomatic_lie, how old are you?:p
 
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