"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No, this isn't a thread about STDs lol.

I've never been a big fan of Jerry Lee Lewis, I've always preferred more guitar based rock. But I was watching these videos the other day and I have to say they are pretty good examples of the energy in early rock and roll. Sorry for the blast from the past, but watch them if you have the patience.

First is Jerry Lee Lewis himself, performing live. The intensity from 0:42 to 0:55 is pretty amazing. The "special effects" amuse me - early precursor to KISS, I guess, lol. Also, note that this song is completely about sex.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lidFipyLG8k

Secondly, here's a kid doing a cover of the same song. He really catches the spirit of it, one of the best covers I've ever seen on YouTube. Tell me this guy couldn't get laid after this! If you could capture the "state" and attitude of this guy, you'd have no problem with women I bet:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTLhEaFUf_0

Lastly, here's a clip from the movie of the same name, with Dennis Quaid playing Lewis. I include it just because of the amusing interchange between him and Chuck Berry.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgT6qvywfpY
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you joking in this thread, the 2nd video was like dude was going full blown physco
 

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Fatal Jay said:
Are you joking in this thread, the 2nd video was like dude was going full blown physco
Okay, I was admittedly up pretty late when I posted this, but yeah, that dude is flipping out. You don't think he would get laid after a performance like that, moldy oldie or not? He was definitely displaying a lot of emotion, I don't think he was holding anything back.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
yeah get laid by a few flaming homosexuals
Man, that's harsh.
But those weren't flaming homosexuals leaning on his piano!

Anyway, it took me over 50 years to appreciate Jerry Lee Lewis' "artistry" pr whatever it is. Can't expect any of you young whippersnappers to understand it.

One thing about Jerry Lee Lewis, that is one guy who did not age well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chuck Berry had his guitar, Little Richard his voice, Buddy Holly his songwriting and Elvis was Elvis but if you ask me there is nobody who was more rock and roll than this guy. Ever. Crazy as hell too look in his eyes. Like a shark.

Check out his songs recorded live at the Star Club in Hamburg Germany back in 1964 on youtube.
 

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zekko said:
One thing about Jerry Lee Lewis, that is one guy who did not age well.
Last one standing. Elvis, Cash, and Perkins are all gone. Who would've ever though JLL would be the last one alive?
 

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Good point, Fair Shake, who would have suspected it?

Another thing: Jerry Lee Lewis and Little Richard were probably the main real piano men in rock and roll, all the way up until Elton John showed up.
 

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I'm with Zecko on this. Guys that can playfully express their emotions with no fear can get laid more than anybody else.

I've known a few guys like that. No looks, no money, but ALWAYS completely fearless with their emotions, and ALWAYS banging hotties.
 
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