"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gray hair at 22. wtf?

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Is this normal or abnormal. I came into college with a thick head of black healthy hair.

I'm in my senior year and literally have 10-15 grey hairs in my head. I cut them out so they're not at all noticeable. Could this be due to stress?

I'll admit i've been highly stressed during certain points in college. Right now being one of them in regards to all the homework and studying i have to do this weekend.

It's just that I never thought i was SO stressed that my hair would start turning gray. It's kind of a bummer. Anybody else experiencing this or have experienced this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have a ****-ton of gray. Probably to do with stress as I have more then my father in his late 40's.

Doesn't really bother me though, looks kind of nice
 

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Threads like this that makes me glad that my dad is in his mid-fifties and hair is as black as ever.

Just curious, you try plucking the 10-15 grey hairs you have? Is that better than just cutting it?
 

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Drdeee said:
Could be ur **** GMO diet and fluoridated water.

FYI i eat very healthy and hit the gym at least once a week
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think stress can help trigger it but it's all in your genetics.

I bet whomever you get your hair from will of went bald / gray around the same time. I get my hair from my dad. He's 50, still not balding and started getting gray hairs at about 48, luckily for me.
 

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L B said:
Threads like this that makes me glad that my dad is in his mid-fifties and hair is as black as ever.

Just curious, you try plucking the 10-15 grey hairs you have? Is that better than just cutting it?
i guess i don't see the point in plucking them. it seems like a new one pops up every day
 

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joverby said:
I think stress can help trigger it but it's all in your genetics.

I bet whomever you get your hair from will of went bald / gray around the same time. I get my hair from my dad. He's 50, still not balding and started getting gray hairs at about 48, luckily for me.

yea i tend to agree. my mom is in her mid 50's and if she didn't dye her hair she'd have a full head of white hair. She told me she started graying late 20's early 30's.

It has to be stress. College gets overwhelming sometimes. fvck...
 

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joverby said:
I think stress can help trigger it but it's all in your genetics.

I bet whomever you get your hair from will of went bald / gray around the same time. I get my hair from my dad. He's 50, still not balding and started getting gray hairs at about 48, luckily for me.
That's no guarantee. My mom and dad had their first grey hairs at 40+ y/o. My mom discovered my first grey hair when I was 17 y/o. I think it's due to my perfectionistic tendencies.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HoneyHitter said:
That's no guarantee. My mom and dad had their first grey hairs at 40+ y/o. My mom discovered my first grey hair when I was 17 y/o. I think it's due to my perfectionistic tendencies.
If you looked at my Dad's hair then at mine you would agree it was true with me at least, lol.
 
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