"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gravitational Model of Attraction

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This is in response to the many "looks matter" threads. And in response to some general misunderstanding of attraction dynamics.
As David D. so succinctly put it: "Attraction isn't a choice".



Imagine a king-size bed mattress.
Now, imagine this mattress having dozens of golf balls strewn all over it.
Also, imagine one or two small cannonballs on the bed.
And in the very center of this mattress is a five-pound bowling ball.

The king-size mattress represents your life - the world around you.
The golf balls are the people around you.
The small cannonballs are hot babes.
And you are the five-pound bowling ball in the very center.



The weight of a five-pound bowling ball in the center of a bed is going to make a dent in the mattress.
And the golf balls nearest to the bowling ball will fall into the depression it is making in the bed.
These golf balls have no choice but to be attracted to the bowling ball -- they are literally falling into the pit that is made by it's very weight and presence.


Your ability to attract others is based on how much you weigh in relation to other objects:
A person with a good body will be a heavier bowling ball.
A person with a handsome or pretty face, will be a heavier bowling ball.
A person with a good personality will be heavier.
A person who has fame will weigh more.
A person with money will weigh more.
A person with power will weigh more.
A person with confidence will weigh more.
A person with experience will weigh more.
Being funny makes you weigh more.
Being mysterious makes you weigh more.
Not being clingy makes you weigh more.
...etc...


The more of the preceding qualities you possess, the bigger the depression you will make in your surrounding environment.
And the more golf balls and cannonballs will start rolling into the pit caused by your presence.

The heavier a bowling ball - the deeper and wider a depression it will make. Golf balls and cannonballs from farther out on the bed will begin rolling into the depression the bowling ball has created. Balls that are closest to the center will gain speed and momentum the closer they get to the bowling ball. Bumping into other cannonballs and golf balls - transferring some of their own energy in tipping slower moving balls toward the center of the pit.

Cannonballs (hot babes) have their own weight. And have golf balls of their own pulled into their gravity well. These hot babes usually have many orbiting satellites around them at all times.
Some cannonballs have so much weight and denisty that they make bigger depressions in the mattress than some bowling balls.

Looks definitely matter. But there are other avenues that a DJ can work on to help make more of an impression on the women and people around them.

Sarging with a wing pools together the weight of more than one person. Thus creating a larger and deeper pit of attraction.

Foreign bodies may enter your solar system. Such as other Alpha Males and Females. They can wreak havok on the orbits of the satellite bodies in your solar system.
If your orbits don't find a complimentary union, calamitous results may occur.

There are some, rarer individuals, with so much weight and density that they create a black hole. Where practically all the poontang within several hundred miles will literally get sucked into it. These are the superstars and celebrities.
They are the 500-pound bowling balls.
You really have no need to fret over these individuals unless both of your solar systems are in close proximity to be able to affect each other. Just concentrate on creating the densest and heaviest planet in your solar system.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I like how this concept of attraction ties in with general relativity. And for this reason it is actually quite accurate: we humans operate similarly to the universe itself!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DarthJuan

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fbplayer06 said:
I like how this concept of attraction ties in with general relativity. And for this reason it is actually quite accurate: we humans operate similarly to the universe itself!

Thanks.
I think it's a pretty accurate model for the most part.

One day I might post about quantum level interaction. Like how to do a "quantum pull" of a target...bypassing space-time.
Fun stuff.
 
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