"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grass is always greener on the other side?

Zombie

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I've heard this in reference to relationships, and just wanted to ask you guys what it meant.

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It means that one person is never going to be happy with a certain relatioship, and is going to be constantly n search of someone else with better quealities that nthe person they are with currently. At least this is the jist of it.
 

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wow.....i was having a discussion with a good friend this past weekend....and he kept mentioning that "grass is greener on the other side"
 

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my interpretation of it is that if your in a relationship u see loads of hot girls and u wanna be single, but if ur single u miss havin a girlfriend... hence, no matter what side your on the grass always looks greener on the other side..... did u ever stand in a field and look over into the distance and see a field that looks so much greener than the one your in (in reality its not) ? thats where the saying came from !!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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