"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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graduation approaching-scared!!!

suaveplayer

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OK guys this is gonna sound really stupid. with graduation approaching i cant help but feel this sense of dread. and its cuz of a stupid reason: im scared that while everyone is busy having fun and celebrating i will have nothing to do. This fear of not having plans alwasy troubles me slightly during would be joyous occasions to everyone. i hope i was clear. any advince?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Analyzeit

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Why will you have nothing to do?? you got no friends or something??

If you don't you better start making friend or you are gonna be doing nothing.
 
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