Black Widow Void
Master Don Juan
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- Feb 24, 2010
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Right now, I'm on fairly solid ground, but if I keep at it, I know I'm going to sink.
Yes, I know about "spinning plates" "oneitus" etc... I could use some advice which goes beyond the quick reference.
Been seeing a girl for six weeks (we are both late 40's). Sex of course has occurred. Although I'm not acting like some homely school boy, I am finding myself being a little too flattering toward her. It's not about winning her approval, but just noticing that she's behaving positively differently than most women (which I realize can change on a dime btw). Example; when confronted on her sh*t, she's very open and owns it but has a high self-esteem (not using the female victim card, or attempting to turn tables etc..) Anyway, being aloof can be a man's best friend, but damn, I've been far from it.
I do like her (and yes, I know this is prime meat for some of you to rag on) but anyway. I have to counter-act my above actions. So far, I haven't gotten any resistance or low interest from her, but facts are facts, if I keep this up, we all know it'll back fire.
Any tips on applying a subtle push/pull ? Any good mindset to adopt while being with her. Keep in mind that anything too bras or abrasive is not going to be subtle enough. Any advice will be appreciated.
Yes, I know about "spinning plates" "oneitus" etc... I could use some advice which goes beyond the quick reference.
Been seeing a girl for six weeks (we are both late 40's). Sex of course has occurred. Although I'm not acting like some homely school boy, I am finding myself being a little too flattering toward her. It's not about winning her approval, but just noticing that she's behaving positively differently than most women (which I realize can change on a dime btw). Example; when confronted on her sh*t, she's very open and owns it but has a high self-esteem (not using the female victim card, or attempting to turn tables etc..) Anyway, being aloof can be a man's best friend, but damn, I've been far from it.
I do like her (and yes, I know this is prime meat for some of you to rag on) but anyway. I have to counter-act my above actions. So far, I haven't gotten any resistance or low interest from her, but facts are facts, if I keep this up, we all know it'll back fire.
Any tips on applying a subtle push/pull ? Any good mindset to adopt while being with her. Keep in mind that anything too bras or abrasive is not going to be subtle enough. Any advice will be appreciated.