"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Grad school question

oakraiderz2

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Ive been looking at grad schools and getting information and what not. But i was wondering, why do people usually go to grad schools out of state and not to the same school where they got their bachelors degree from?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In theory, it is to prevent what is known as 'academic inbreeding' and to gain exposure to the viewpoints of other schools. Grad schools are supposed to favor people who did not attend their undergrad program, but it probably varies with the grad program. In practice, grad school admission is very competitive and average starting salaries are often closely related to the national ranking of the school's program. So most people go to the best grad program that will admit them. If you can't get in to a fairly prestigious grad program, then this is less of a concern. Just go where you can afford to go without racking up giant student loan bills.
 

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Thanks dude
 

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Are you sure you want to go to grad school? Because from what I've heard it isn't easy at all and you have to absolutely love what you're doing else you'll fall apart.
 

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I am going to get a Masters of Accountancy, but I don't know where yet. I was thinking maybe University College Dublin, but I'm not sure if it would count towards the 150 credits for the CPA... Anyone have an M.Acc.? Where did you go? How was it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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aBAzLLnA said:
Are you sure you want to go to grad school? Because from what I've heard it isn't easy at all and you have to absolutely love what you're doing else you'll fall apart.
Uhh...im pretty sure. I still have 3 years to decide so im thinking im alright. People go to grad school and law school all the time...even if it is hard. I dont understand why you felt the need to point out what you did; im mature enough to know whats going on.
 
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