"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gracias sosuave

salsipuedes

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I first got here about 2 months ago, lost, angry, and afraid as hell, i had recently met a woman i knew since highschool, a total hottie, everybody wanted to be with her, and i was just another dumb kid that dreamed about her and never had the courage to even think about dating her. This time she showed interest in me, and i realize i was still that dumb insecure kid from 15 years ago, i got all nervous, acted weird, and she started to freak out, and thats when i decided i had to change. I came here and started reading, started understanding about ME and not really women, if you can understand who you are and what your value is a man, you can do anything you want with women, its as simple and as difficult as that.

2 months later and i am dating the hottie, and shes head over heels for me, two other really hot women that i know from my gym also are interested in me, why? i just simply started to talk to them like i would do with a friend, told them they where beautiful and had great bodies, but made it very clear i wasnt interested in them, i just felt they should know they are hot.

I didnt take the DJ bootcamp, or read everything in here, i just found the pieces i needed to get my game in order and free myself from fears.

Thanks Sosuave
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Master Don Juan
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Don't tell them they are beautiful and have great bodies. Let all the other guys tell them that. You're different...You think she's just fine :)

Congrats on your success. Hope I'll be having that shortly myself!
 
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