"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gracias sosuave

salsipuedes

Don Juan
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I first got here about 2 months ago, lost, angry, and afraid as hell, i had recently met a woman i knew since highschool, a total hottie, everybody wanted to be with her, and i was just another dumb kid that dreamed about her and never had the courage to even think about dating her. This time she showed interest in me, and i realize i was still that dumb insecure kid from 15 years ago, i got all nervous, acted weird, and she started to freak out, and thats when i decided i had to change. I came here and started reading, started understanding about ME and not really women, if you can understand who you are and what your value is a man, you can do anything you want with women, its as simple and as difficult as that.

2 months later and i am dating the hottie, and shes head over heels for me, two other really hot women that i know from my gym also are interested in me, why? i just simply started to talk to them like i would do with a friend, told them they where beautiful and had great bodies, but made it very clear i wasnt interested in them, i just felt they should know they are hot.

I didnt take the DJ bootcamp, or read everything in here, i just found the pieces i needed to get my game in order and free myself from fears.

Thanks Sosuave
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Master Don Juan
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Don't tell them they are beautiful and have great bodies. Let all the other guys tell them that. You're different...You think she's just fine :)

Congrats on your success. Hope I'll be having that shortly myself!
 
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