"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grace period?

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Leporello

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Just something very basic: how long is a good time to wait to call/talk after a date, assuming you don’t see this girl every day anyway?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you are to see a girl every day at school or what not, you need to have some serious game if you just want to mess with her and don't want a relationship. Not because of the girl, but because your desires will get the best of you, and before you know it shes your new girlfriend.

Make sure to keep busy during the three day period. I keep a schedule book, so write on the third day "call so and so." Then I completely forget about her. on the third day I see her on my schedule book, and call her.


You want to think about her as little as possible during those three days. If you get to the point where you practically forget about her, then your money.
 
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wait a few days, whatever feels right. days<2 is no good.
 
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