"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Grabbing life by the b@lls!!

jimjam

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Hey everyone.

Wanted to brag or sing my praises or confirm what most already know. Self improvement, introspection, discipline and focus, hard work and you will acheworkive ANYTHING!!

ANYTHING!!

Some of you may know that I've had my share of struggles. Through hard work and determination I have overcome many od my demons. Specifically, through hard work and discipline I have

Remained clean and sober for 11.5 years
Started a side business and customers. Are beginning to trickle in
Began dating a new plate
Acheived the musculature of Bruce Lee
Maintained a positive attitude

I did all of these things. I DID THEM. Through my own will and effort. It feels fvcking awesome!! Like nothing else.

Just wanted to shout. Everything espoused here is true. #1 thing is to always remain focused on yourself and never stop improving. Hard work pays off. I'm 45, have MS and life is only getting better.

Thank you all

HOORAH!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jimjam

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This is probably the biggest potential problem, how are you dealing with this?
One day at a time. Was diagnosed in 2002. At that time I could just about stand up on my own. Since then I've tried to maintain positivity, first and foremost. Diet and excercise are 2nd. I've been lucky. I can run and play football with my 7 year old. Ha!

Nothing is guaranteed. I can walk today. Tomorrow isnt here. I'll deal wirh that when it happens.

One day at a time. Truthfully, getting MS was actually a good thing. It really caused me to think hard about all the time I wasted while drunk and high. Probably never would've never sobered up otherwise.
 

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Mate bloody great going. The issues you have overcome make a lot of the guys problems here look trivial.
 

resilient

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Keep it up man. Glad to hear things are going well.
 

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I love to hear of men overcoming illnesses, as I have severe Ulcerative Colitis. And I do mean severe.

Like you, jimjam, I'm not letting that stop me from overcoming anything at all in life. I want to be defined not by my illness, but by my handling life in spite of it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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