"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Goverment Shutdown

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Watching the news and saw that at the end of this month, schools will run out of money for partially paid or outright free meals for school children.

Then I get to thinking, my mother made me breakfast every morning when I was young. I also had a lunchbox to take to school with lots of goodies in it for my lunch. Yum yum.

These days, the taxpayers pay for the food the little urchins consume because the parents don't step up and get it done. Parenting, caring and providing for children is now nonexistent for the most part. Why the fvck do I have to pay for this? Especially since I never had kids. Fvcking country is socialistic. Make no mistake about it. How bout mommy and daddy at least use their food stamps to make their kids a lunch to take with them?

Then I hear some guy was mowing the lawn behind the Lincoln memorial in DC because of the shutdown. He was told to stop or face arrest. He just said to them that somebody had to do it. I dig that.

This country has been circling the drain for quite sometime now. Nobody takes responsibilty any longer for themselves, let alone their families. It's always somebody else's fault or responsibility.

Gonna be a long day.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are a lot of parents who barely feed their kids at all; they just expect the school to do it. There is a thriving black market in what used to be called food stamps. It's usually a credit card these days, but there's still nothing to stop people from trading food for cigarettes, booze, and drugs. My gf has worked with a private charity that packs brown paper bags of food for kids to take home over weekends, because a lot of them don't get fed at home at all. In the summer, churches run kids' breakfast programs for the same reason.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
There are a lot of parents who barely feed their kids at all; they just expect the school to do it. There is a thriving black market in what used to be called food stamps. It's usually a credit card these days, but there's still nothing to stop people from trading food for cigarettes, booze, and drugs. My gf has worked with a private charity that packs brown paper bags of food for kids to take home over weekends, because a lot of them don't get fed at home at all. In the summer, churches run kids' breakfast programs for the same reason.
Hear ya Bible

Maybe if if we keep the door shut on the dumpster, the bears won't come back for free food and fend for themselves.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
There are a lot of parents who barely feed their kids at all; they just expect the school to do it. There is a thriving black market in what used to be called food stamps. It's usually a credit card these days, but there's still nothing to stop people from trading food for cigarettes, booze, and drugs. My gf has worked with a private charity that packs brown paper bags of food for kids to take home over weekends, because a lot of them don't get fed at home at all. In the summer, churches run kids' breakfast programs for the same reason.

I used to know a guy with two kids that would sell his food stamps for cash money (at a discounted price).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm very surprised that shutdowns don't happen more often. It amazes me that the 2 parties are EVER able to agree on anything, what with so much power and money at stake.
It's all a con, really. There's not much difference between the two parties.

There's THIS, that shows O (and his fellow Dems) were against raising the debt ceiling back when GW was in the house, in which case the Repubs were all for raising the debt ceiling.

Nobody seems to mind that they've BOTH gone 180.

Whatever argument the Dems are making FOR the debt ceiling, the Repubs made the SAME arguments back in 2006.

Whatever arguments the Repubs are making AGAINST raising the debt ceiling, the Dems made the SAME arguments back in 2006.

This is really just scare tactics, to con the public into more debt (printing more money,) so the government can avoid the horrors of fiscal responsibility.
 
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taiyuu_otoko said:
It's all a con, really. There's not much difference between the two parties.

There's THIS, that shows O (and his fellow Dems) were against raising the debt ceiling back when GW was in the house, in which case the Repubs were all for raising the debt ceiling.

Nobody seems to mind that they've BOTH gone 180.

Whatever argument the Dems are making FOR the debt ceiling, the Repubs made the SAME arguments back in 2006.

Whatever arguments the Repubs are making AGAINST raising the debt ceiling, the Dems made the SAME arguments back in 2006.

This is really just scare tactics, to con the public into more debt (printing more money,) so the government can avoid the horrors of fiscal responsibility.

Yep. All the government wants is majority support. The constitution means d1ck. The majority, these days, cares too much about dancing with stars, facebook and rich housewives to actually make a difference with their vote. The majority cares about what they're told to - what the MSM tells them to. You mad? You should be. I know I fvcking am. Guess what, there's nothing we can do about it. Fall in line, good citizen.

How many times have our elected officials bypassed the constitution to achieve their desired ends? I don't know the answer. Does anyone?

They do what they want, when they want. Good luck stopping them.



P.S.

I miss Burroughs.
 
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