"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gotten good results from Ronnie Coleman's routine.....

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You all should try it for the big multijoint exercises: Deadlift, Squat, Bench/Incline Press.

5 sets of 10 minimum reps.
4 warm up sets, building up weight that you can do easily. The 4th set should be challenging, but not too hard.
5th set is where the rubber meets the road. Balls to the wall, as many times as possible, 12-15 maximum.

He lifts heavy, but for reps. If he can't do 10, he doesn't do it. His results speak for themselves. He's 41, won 8 Olympias, never had a serious injury.

Example squat routine:

10 reps x 135 lbs.
10 reps x 225 lbs.
10 reps x 315 lbs.
10 reps x 405 lbs. - last warm up set
10 staggering reps x 585 lbs., same form as the first.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RONNIE COLEMAN

Ronnie was born Ronald Dean Coleman on May 13, 1964 in Monroe, Louisiana. His height is 5 feet 11 inches, and he currently lives in Arlington, Texas. He graduated from Grambling State College in Louisiana, with a degree in accounting. He lives in Arlington, Texas and works as a police officer. He has been a police officer since 1989.



He was introduced into competition bodybuilding by Brian Dobson, the owner of Arlington's Metro Flex Gym. His first bodybuilding contest was in April 1990, at the Mr. Texas. He won first heavyweight and overall. His contest weight is around 229 pounds, while his offseason weight hovers around 250. He met his girlfriend Vickie Gates, an IFBB pro bodybuilder, in 1992 at a GNC store.



ABOUT RON

Born: May 13, 1964

Birthplace: Monroe, Louisiana, USA

Residence: Texas, USA

Height: 5' 11"

Off Season Weight: 320 lbs

Competition Weight: 287 lbs

Arms: 24"

Chest: 60"
 

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I just don't see how anyone can get that big without the juice running through his veins.

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speed dawg said:
You all should try it for the big multijoint exercises: Deadlift, Squat, Bench/Incline Press.
No, we shouldn't, unless we are Ronnie Coleman.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
No, we shouldn't, unless we are Ronnie Coleman.
Well, it worked for me, but to each his own. If you don't have the common sense (which is apparently lacking in this forum, see this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120167) to not put THOSE weights on the bar, and to manipulate the workout into something that works for your own strength, then nevermind.

My bench press workout is 115, 135, 155, 185, then 225 x 10 reps. Not bad seeing how my max used to be 235.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you talking about his whole routine or just the part you posted? I've seen his whole routine and it's insane. Generally five sets working up to a top set (a la 5x5) is a solid way to train but I wouldn't use that scheme on everything
 

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If it's working for you then right on! Good Luck!
 

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That was part of his leg routine I saw in Flex. Yes he does tons of other stuff that only experience people should even attempt. I left out the leg presses, curls, extension, lunges, etc.

My point was that this particular sets/reps worked well for me. I have used the pyramid, 3x10, 6-8 reps, 5x5, etc., but got the most bang for the buck from this way.
 

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It's quite well known that Ronnie rarely does full reps, and instead does a hell of a lot of partials. Just thought I'd throw that in.
 
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