Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've had girls tell me im sexy, attractive.. etc..

but when it comes to good looking girls I always back out the situation telling myself "she prob already has a boyfriend" "she is outta my leauge"

any tips?

its jus so much easier to hit on fat chicks lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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niggawitaspear said:
but when it comes to good looking girls I always back out the situation telling myself "she prob already has a boyfriend" "she is outta my leauge"

any tips?

its jus so much easier to hit on fat chicks lol.
LOL okay...
stop hanging out with fat chicks, your becoming to get too used to them.
stop thinking negative, NO ONE is out of your league. Just tell yourself that.
Why are you telling yourself this stuff anyways? Just take a shot at them, you'll gain experience (even if they have a bf) and soon you'll become a true DJ

You know why you like to hit on fat chicks? Its because your not CRAZY over them, so its easier to you to not care about what you say.
Take that same atitude with you to the hot girls. The "care-free" atitude, and you'll have success like you never imagined before.
 

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ummmmm........... u hang out with the fat chicks, other girls are gonna think your just some weak noob, whose not a player. Flirt with the girls and get to no them, usually their boyfriends is the first thing theylll bring up.
 

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haha, i remember when i started out on ugly and fat girls as practice. But you have to make your move up to the higher levels.

Some of the hottest, and cutest girls in my school are insecure about something just as much as any fat girl is.

These "hot" girls wake up 15-20 minutes earlier than usual just to put on make-up and do their hair. They spend restless afternoons looking for the perfect shoes for their prom dress. If they were REALLY hot then they wouldnt need that. They feel insecure so they try and perfect themselves as much as possible.

They are exactly the same as any other girl

But then you come across these girls who believe they are the hot (whether they are or not). Negs, CnF, Cat String Theory, Playing Hard to Get, etc. There's a huge arsenal out there to pop that big head
 

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Even though they banned you, I'm gonna put my input into this for all the other inquisitive minds out there.....

NEVER, EVER flirt with really fat or ugly girls!
There is no reason for you to do that ----> EVER!


Even, being in there presence is an automatic DLV (Demonstration of Lower Value). The hotter/good-looking chicks will see you as a desperate loser who will jump at anything he can get his desperate hands on. The only guys who even give these chicks the time of day are only the biggest AFCs/desperate losers there are.
If you want to "hone your game skills" there are plenty of OK-looking chicks for this (and you would still have the chance to F-close them)

And if any of you guys think that I'm mean or an a$$hole for saying this:
You pansies can all go screw yourselves :cuss:

I'm just being realistic cause guess what ---> Life isn't fair!
There's no need for anyone to start being nice to all these chicks
(especially any recovering AFC who needs to break out of his nice-guy shell)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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