"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Goth cuties.

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Are goth cuties...the type that wear dark clothing, have tattoos (including a tramp stamp), pose nude for money and call themselves a "model"...any easier to get in bed than let's say a preppy mainstream type of HB...or is it just AW behavior and they're just as picky?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This one claims she is drug free other than Adderall for ADD and a chain smoker and loves beer. Would it be as easy as going to her place, bringing over some beer, and letting nature take its course? Keep in mind I'm not ugly but I'm not the drug dealer or long haired metalhead looking type.

The one leverage I have over her is that she wants to be the singer in my band.
 

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They can't be that hard. I have one that's guaranteed sex that I've known online for a couple years now. I just need a couple hundred dollars for an airplane ticket and there it is. And I attracted this girl when I was a needy AFC who had no idea about game. So, give it a shot. Approach them like other girls, and maybe it'll be surprisingly easy.
The only negative about group/clique based girls, is that they tend to enjoy dating within their group. But that's about every group anyways.
 

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Well this one was just under the impression I wanted her to sing in my band lol no interest in me...I used the apocalypse method after (big mistake) and she wasn't interested. Like they say, even the biggest slut is only a slut for a guy she likes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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