"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Got very rare chance to date with HB9 hiphop celeb that I almost ruined it!
- Thread starter astrn
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Of course I am clueless. If everything went perfect my comment would be completely different.SAYNO said:Yea I know this dude is f00king clueless..
Maybe you could define what my exact problem is. I mean really. Being sarcastic is something else, helping is different...
I call it a learning phase...
I am not devastated or broken. This is not the first woman that I m into... Of course that makes me angry...
I used to read alot of stuff from here. It worked well before but since 6-7 months of some other problems surfaced in my life I lost some self confidence...
I just need to get it back my confidence.