"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Got very rare chance to date with HB9 hiphop celeb that I almost ruined it!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Of course I am clueless. If everything went perfect my comment would be completely different.SAYNO said:Yea I know this dude is f00king clueless..
Maybe you could define what my exact problem is. I mean really. Being sarcastic is something else, helping is different...
I call it a learning phase...
I am not devastated or broken. This is not the first woman that I m into... Of course that makes me angry...
I used to read alot of stuff from here. It worked well before but since 6-7 months of some other problems surfaced in my life I lost some self confidence...
I just need to get it back my confidence.