"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got to aggressive how could I reverse the damage?

timmylivingalie

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I met up with a chick I have known for over 10 years and I been in the friendzone for most of the time. But I have been gaming her and escaping the friendzone. A couple of weeks ago I ran into her in a store and she was wearing her work clothes a short skirt and pantyhose. ( she is a waitress at a casino) I made the mistake of going afc and telling her she was fine in her outfit and all this crap. I have been getting bad vibes from her every since. What should I do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ronniel

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Look, you 've got to be a bit preselected (having other girls interested in you) if you want to attract her.
So go out and hit other women, date them etc. She will catch on it and maybe she will see you in a different light.
If you were a high status male with women interested in you, the comments would not offend her a bit. An alpha can compliment a woman and send her to heaven.

So, go out. Have fun. Hit on other women.
 
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