"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blackmm

Blackmm

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So back story, I met up with her for a get to know you date and things seem to be going well, good convo and afterwards I couldn't secure a 2nd hookup (busy school, you know the drill). I pretty much move onto other things. About two weeks later I msg her just to say hi, how ya been. I get this as a response:

Her:
Hey there. I apologize for being such a stranger. I've been really tied up with school nearing its finish.

Ive been hoping to get in touch with you and let you know what was going on. I hope you understand and take this the best way possible. I have started seeing the guy I was with again. We kind of rekindled our relationship. I feel bad because I honestly am very attracted to you...You are a really great man. Hopefully we can remain friends though : ) Just hit me up. Im here and there for awhile but when summer comes around I should be easier to catch.


Now I haven't responded. Opinions? I'm not about to set up shop in the friendzone or trying to win her over and the new dude can have her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigneil

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Take the compliment and run. If she approaches you again tell her you are attracted to her also, which is why you can never see her again. If she asks why it's because you won't be just friends. Then if she still wants to see you again do it.
 
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LongLostFriend

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She obviously overestimated your interest level and has graciously invited you to orbit her.

I think you know how to handle that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Blackmm said:
Her:
Hey there. I apologize for being such a stranger. I've been really tied up with school nearing its finish.

Ive been hoping to get in touch with you and let you know what was going on. I hope you understand and take this the best way possible. I have started seeing the guy I was with again. We kind of rekindled our relationship. I feel bad because I honestly am very attracted to you...You are a really great man. Hopefully we can remain friends though : ) Just hit me up. Im here and there for awhile but when summer comes around I should be easier to catch.
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Pure attention wh0re response.

Don't even bother replying to that attention wh0re garbage message. Delete her number and go NC. If she messages you sometime later down the road and even if you know it is her, just ask: "Do I know you?" and then go NC again. It will drive her nuts and either close the subject or get her to chase you.

This girl sounds like a time waster. Don't bother unless she chases you. Go after other girls.
 
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Megaman XIV

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Clearly this princess is in another castle.

Go ghost. Don't respond. Don't be friends with her. Delete her number. Drop her ass. She's not attracted to you, let alone aroused by you. She's had this other man weeks ago and you never saw it coming. Don't orbit this b**ch. That's called chasing, and it won't do any good that is for you. Those are the facts.

Get equipped.
 
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Mike32ct

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Translation:

"Thank you for submitting your resume and application. Unfortunately, the FWB and soon to be bf position has been filled. (Actually, he 'filled' me a few times while you were buying me dinners.) However, we are always 'hiring' UNPAID (i.e. don't get any play) orbiter interns. Please text for an interview."
 
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