got the number

[trajicdynasty]

I got this girls number but her friend hooked us up and when she wrote down the numebr she wrote her name and said just incase you forget forgive me if i sound to observational do u think it means anything like she thinks im a player or pimp or that i talk to alot of women which im not and dont

 

[L-I-B]

way too much overanalyzing, she gave you the name with the number because........."just incase you forget"

 

[One on One]

This has happened to me before. I think it signifies high initial IL because she wants to make sure you remember her name because if you don't know remember her name, she knows you'll be too embarassed to call. When it happened to me, I joked about how of course I knew her name, but do you know mine? She played along and was like "um, it starts with a D, right?" It's a good situation to make a joke out of. Say something like, "damn girl you give me no credit, of course I know your name." There are so many different directions you can go. Always be on your toes for C+F.

 

[xblitz44x]

haha, you guys crack me up. relax, it makes no difference. Unfortunately if you keep this up your nervousness, and anxiousness are going to come to the surface and fvck this up before you have the chance to enjoy it.

 

[Survivor]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
haha, you guys crack me up. relax, it makes no difference. Unfortunately if you keep this up your nervousness, and anxiousness are going to come to the surface and fvck this up before you have the chance to enjoy it.

Damn, blitz, give the kid a break. He's only 15. Failure isn't just a part of the process, remember? It IS the process.

Anyway, trajicdynasty, just separate yourself from this girl for a day or two so you can get over your nervousness. After youv'e calmed down, call her, go on a fun date and just focus on having a good time. Her digits won't be the last you'll ever get, so don't put undue pressure on yourself.

 

[becker]

I think that getting the number is usually the easy part. The difficult part is having to call them to make a date. I prefer to make the date in person, then call to confirm, or don't call at all and just take her somewhere right then and there, as something super-spontaneous. I know that's difficult, but if you give them less time to ponder what if this and what if that, then you always have a better chance.