"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Got the number, how long til you reach out?

Thread starter Drummer93
Start date Aug 16, 2015

Bingo-Player

Master Don Juan

Aug 18, 2015

24 hours is ample in my opinon

i dont want to be wasting 4 days of my life wondering wether i should make contact with some chick ive only known a couple hours

call her text her whatever just tell her what you want and she can either accept or decline

luckily there are millions of women on the planet

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.