Got the hots so bad for one girl, just don't know how to make it happen

[Kal0051]

So I'm writing this just because right now I want this one girl so bad. Was ****ing around on facebook (I reactivated my account), just clicking on random links and was this girl left a comment on one of my female friends page. I've met this girl a bunch of times with my female friend and always kind of thought she was hot. Anyway, clicked on her name to get to her profile and her pic is basically her bent over. This girl has the finest ass I've ever seen. Want her so bad right now, lol.

I know what some guys will say, "you want her? go get her!". Lol, wish it were that easy; other than the fact we have a common friend I see her much or run into her. So not sure how to initiate contact. And secondly, this is the kind of girl that bangs multiple guys at a time and I don't know how to even get her attention (everytime I've seen her she's had a different guy hanging off her).

What are your guy's opinions?

 

[JJaySBK]

So I'm writing this just because right now I want this one girl so bad. Was ****ing around on facebook (I reactivated my account), just clicking on random links and was this girl left a comment on one of my female friends page. I've met this girl a bunch of times with my female friend and always kind of thought she was hot. Anyway, clicked on her name to get to her profile and her pic is basically her bent over. This girl has the finest ass I've ever seen. Want her so bad right now, lol.

I know what some guys will say, "you want her? go get her!". Lol, wish it were that easy; other than the fact we have a common friend I see her much or run into her. So not sure how to initiate contact. And secondly, this is the kind of girl that bangs multiple guys at a time and I don't know how to even get her attention (everytime I've seen her she's had a different guy hanging off her).

What are your guy's opinions?

Lol are you sure you want a girl who bangs multiple guys at a time? Thats kind of gross and below my standards, but to each his own, I'm not you.

Just be CF and start making small talk. You haven't even met her yet...

 

[Kal0051]

Lol are you sure you want a girl who bangs multiple guys at a time? Thats kind of gross and below my standards, but to each his own, I'm not you.

Just be CF and start making small talk. You haven't even met her yet...

Yeah, I've met her on multiple occasions, but like I said she's always with some guy so kinda hard to really get any attraction or even conversation going.

I also don't know for a fact that she bangs tons of guys all the time, all I do know is that she's playing the field.

 

[Zarky]

Don't ever get hung up on "this one girl." Hit on tons of chicks, date multiple women. The ones who want you will reciprocate. You can't choose "a" girl, any more than you can capture "this one fly" with flypaper. Flypaper attracts all sorts of flies. Be flypaper. Girlpaper. Just attract as many girls as you can and then get rid of the ones you don't want.

Attracting women is more like fishing than hunting. You throw your lure in and some fish will bite, most won't. You'll take any tasty-looking fish that wants your lure.

 

[Kal0051]

Don't ever get hung up on "this one girl." Hit on tons of chicks, date multiple women. The ones who want you will reciprocate. You can't choose "a" girl, any more than you can capture "this one fly" with flypaper. Flypaper attracts all sorts of flies. Be flypaper. Girlpaper. Just attract as many girls as you can and then get rid of the ones you don't want.

Attracting women is more like fishing than hunting. You throw your lure in and some fish will bite, most won't. You'll take any tasty-looking fish that wants your lure.

haha, I know what you mean about not getting hung up on one girl. I've done that in the past and has always been bad. I've not really hung up on her, more like seeing a pic of her oh-so-sweet ass just made me want her, lol.

 

[brekke]

You can pick up a girl that bangs multiple guys at a time by asking her how much she charges.

 

[HeMan]

dude your threads are getting worse and worse...

need to stop posting such crap

you know you wont do anything about it !

dont want to sound harsh but its the truth

 

[Nygard]

Women are totally out of your league as of today. Focus on getting something social going first before you attempt anything.

 

[drewsg]

Well, if she's banging multiple guys, sounds like your game doesn't have to be too strong.. you should be able to slide right in so to speak

 

[Kal0051]

Women are totally out of your league as of today. Focus on getting something social going first before you attempt anything.

I am social for the most part, just horrible with women (in a sexual or romantic sense, it's not like women hate me). I'd rather be the guy that's terrible with women and tries, than the guy that's terrible with them and just doesn't try. But it doesn't look like I'm taken seriously here, so I'll just be on my way then. I'm just fumble through my interactions with women, maybe I'll figure this out on my own. Thanks for everyone's help. Bye.

 

[HeMan]

mate there is nothing wrong with asking for help.

we are all learning.

messages like this are pointless though. what do you want us to say? to help you get the courage to message some random chick?

you have probably read the bible like 1000 times. if you havent learnt now then we cant help you

 

[Romjuan]

ha, this is a funny thread. i get the same way if i watch porn and i say to myself how bad i want that girl...haha. dude, you want this girl because she has a nice ass bent over on facebook, and shes easy. well, girls like this are obviously going to have guys around them like you said. she without a doubt has daddy issues or uncle touched her in the shower...something along those lines. i hope your not thinking about dating her but my advice is to not contact her through facebook.
with my experience with girls like this you need to present yourself as the prize so shes in competition to get your attention. think about it like this; she has tons of guys around her, (probably cuz shes sluttin it up) and they are all jocking her. to her this is boring and not challenging. you need to somehow see her at a party/bar/club/whereever outside setting and game on her indirectly. facebook makes you like everyone of those guys.

definatly when you see her do the ****y funny. have your friend introduce you two and say something like, "wow so your the girl xxxx keeps telling me would look good with me? i thought you would be blond but i guess your cute." and go from there. take a shot with her, while you take the shot use a lot of kino on her body. leave her alone for a bit, come back and towards the end of the night be confident and say "me and some buddies are goin hot tubbin at my place come with us." obviously it will be just you. good luck

 

[Captain]

I know what some guys will say, "you want her? go get her!". Lol, wish it were that easy;

It IS that easy. Just do it. Stop analyzing everything.

 

[SteR]

Don't ever get hung up on "this one girl." Hit on tons of chicks, date multiple women. The ones who want you will reciprocate. You can't choose "a" girl, any more than you can capture "this one fly" with flypaper. Flypaper attracts all sorts of flies. Be flypaper. Girlpaper. Just attract as many girls as you can and then get rid of the ones you don't want.

Attracting women is more like fishing than hunting. You throw your lure in and some fish will bite, most won't. You'll take any tasty-looking fish that wants your lure.

It's interesting you say this as I've recently been pondering over my situation. Over the years, about 95% of the girls I have been with have been because of this reason. It's extremely rare that I'll see a girl I want and be able to consciously manipulate my words/behaviour/events to make her mine. (in fact I can't think of any occasion where this has happened recently)

Nearly every time it's just been the case that I've ended up talking to a girl for whatever reason, made conversation and either there's a connection or not. If there is one I'll make something happen else I'll bail.

Is this what it's like even for the best of PUAs? It's only recently dawned on me recently that no matter how good my game is, sometimes I just can't have that girl. There are no special tricks I can pull and sometimes the girl's just gonna leave with another guy for reasons out of my control.

I think my mindset's a little warped... I view every woman as obtainable - I just have to somehow figure out what gets her off and use it. I guess that's not how reality actually is...

/end epiphany

 

[xdreamz]

first of all you must believe in yourself. think of a plan then go through with it, and then stop. you don't have to win everytime, like how you said it's hard to get her attention, but to win is important.