"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got the hb8 phone number.. Field report

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Today.. I was on fire. I would say besides getting the hb8's phone number and dancing with her all night long.. I am most proud of approaching the two hottest blondes in the whole club they looked like they should be in my wildest fantasies hb9's obviously still in college.

I made myself and my wingman proud.. he said he was "very proud" of me for doing the approach and holding my own. Even if you get kind of blown out for approaching hb9's.. you feel amaaaazing right after... I'm not sure what all the fuss is about when you get blown out. After my approach, they obviously felt better and came out on to the dance floor.. witch is what I was egging them on to do... one guy saw that and gave me a "wooo!" In credit for getting the hb9's out there.

I was lucky to have my 2 girls.. hb7.5's that just got a third hb7.5 roommate to give me all the social grinding and backup that I needed... but really my wingman said it best when he said... "You are the man... you really are." That ment alot to me.. I used to be really shy.

I feel like finally I am at the point where I can approach anyone. The secret is to be having more fun at all times than the people you are approaching.. so if you get blown out.. you go back to your fun and they go back to their boring conversation.

One guy at the club that was a regular died in a tree accident ... literally he was at the club yesterday and today he is dead. We had a song dedicated to him tonight... live every day like it is your last...

I made an approach to a hb 8.5 today that was on a date.. I remembered her from yesterday and I made small talk about how we were having a good time... and I told hb8.5 to say hi to her friend blonde hb8.5 for me.. I have seen them before but she was on a date tonight.

I also made an approach... to hb7.5 and hb8...they were allll the way on the other side of the club sitting in a booth while I was on the dance floor... I said to my wingman .. "watch this" I took a sip of my drink.. set it down.. walk towrds them... picked my drink back up... walked twords them again and the long walk there..

I walk to the table and said "hhheeeeyyyy" .. I think I got a "hi" back. I said "I came from allll the way over there because I saw you two and I had to say hi" they gave me a rather mild greeting. Then I small talked.. where are you from.. get out on the dance floor.. see ya later... walked back to my home base... they were all proud as they saw me do the long walk fearless and get semi rejected ice cold.

The best way to get a girls phone number is to have her enter it onto your phone personally... there is just something about whipping out your phone in the middle of the dance floor.. giving it to the girl and watching her fill out all the contact info... and giving it back to you with a smile... best feeling ever... this girl used to run away in disgust from me... now it is 180 in my favor as I was dancing with more girls than she was with guys.. and she was looking at me when she was dancing with others... staying in my orbit.

What a great weekend...

have a good night everyone.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solomon said:
Sneakypetes? or 508?

Great FR bro
Not even.. I can't afford to go downtown although I have been to those bars before.. Sneakypetes 508 504.. that was back in my afc days.. when I was scared and awkward... I would head out for a night and have no clue about anything.

Now days I stick to my dance bars in the suburbs.. it is safe, no drama.. no douce bags and it is cheap.


Here are some more things I heard and noticed last night...

My 2 hb7.5 girls and their new hb7.5 roommate were pointing out that someone at the bar we knew wore the same thing on Thursday... lol these b1tches were cruel hahah you should of heard them scolding him like he was a fake..

Instead of dancing soo much with hb8 the girl I am interested in.. at one point in the night, I should have taken her hand and led her to a table to have a conversation... I will definately do this next week.

The art of flirting is learning how to tease.. I felt like I was the only person in the whole bar teasing anyone... tickling.. running into them.. asking if they have germs.. dancing crazy next to them.. copying their dance moves.. making faces at them...

Compare this to the guy that just creepy goes up to the girl and just grinds... no convo.. quick burst of excitement then they usually both run off.

The best revenge is watching the hb's that blew you off now in your orbit because they now see that you are the life of the party and that I just talk to everyone and that is a normal thing that I did approaching them like that... I was almost welcoming them to the bar.

I'm really excited to see the hb8 next week. I'm not even going to call her.. I know she will meet me at the same place next week... that is when I will take things further.
 

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Nice man, you figured it all out. It feels good to see the girls who rejected you before watch you pick out hotter girls than them. Plus, if you make eye contact with them, it's like a 'haha' moment and they feel so ashamed that they have to look away.

Club game is easy, now try it during the daytime by yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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