"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got the first number, whats next?

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Canadien

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ok guys, I have begun sarging, and already a success, but is it still alright to call even if you don't know the other person that well?

During the conversation, I admnitted that I am very family oriented guy and looking to make new friends, was that a big mistake or is it still ok?

Is it all about playing a perfect PUA game? is it alright to be yourself after approaching? I would like to try out something at least to learn more, so what is the next process?


If I call her, what do I propose we do? all the tips are very well welcome..

I need all the support and inspiring words to get this ball rolling....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all, ALWAYS be yourself. Being incongruent with your true self is sad. It shows you don't lack enough confidence to be comfortable acting like yourself around people and women.

If you're prone to making stupid random comments all the time, and can't stop talking about boobs, then it's ok to act different. But if you're not some oddball, don't act like someone you're not.

I see nothing wrong with divulging that you're family oriented, and are seeking new friends. I think most of us are...

As for calling her, of course it's ok, you got the number for a reason. Right? How else would you take your relationship to the next level? Hope she somehow finds your number and calls you? Aint hapening.

When you call her, spark her memory from your last meeting by bringing up something that you both thought was funny. Something that will trigger her emotions. Something that makes her remember you, and not the other dime - a - dozen guys that hit on her that night. Feel me? Good.

As for activities, inviter her out for some coffee or something engaging.

Here's what I did last Thursday,

Met girl a two weeks prior (yes that long with zero physical contact), suggest she meet me at Dunn Bros. and we chat, and drink coffee. I did this with all intentions of keeping it harmless, short, and stimulating (I'm capable of conversing for a while).

Well, it just so happens she invites me over to her place, instead of meeting at Dunn Bros. We ended up having a ****tail at her place, and catching up before heading out to a lounge. Definitely a different scenario than what I had envisioned. And, it was FAR better than an hour at Dunn Bros...

Anyway, point is, just invite her out with you, go somewhere not boring, and see what comes of it. Who knows, you could end up like me, find yourself in a "better" situation, and end up spending the night at her place, in her bed, naked, with her!

Best of luck!

-Tony




p.s. Sorry for the novel.
 
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