"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got the E-mail. What's next?

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CMan2Fg

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So there's this girl in my computer class at school. I talked to her throughout the semester..2nd to last class, got her e-mail. Last night was the last one of that class. Now it's the "playoffs"

So what to do now? When should I e-mail this girl and what do I say in it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ask her number, then ask her out.

Don't reply on the email

Call her after you dated her.

It's better to ask her out already.
 

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what to do?

go to the high school discussion board,
what is with this f*cking site anyway, go to the high school board to talk about this bull crap.
BTW dumb azz,
e-mail her and ask her out. Stupid.
If she doesn't like you then oh well, life sucks. Move onto to a new girl
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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