"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Arranged a date with a girl last night but cancelled because she phoned me 45 min after the fact I was to pick her up (I didn't answer) I phoned her twice and texted once before the set time I was to pick her up and she didn't answer her phone. 2nd time she phoned (2 hours later) I answered and she was kind of angry. Its the second time this type of thing has happened with us, mostly due to me because I'm not attracted to her (young, but not too thin and not too good looking)

Her: "Hi, how are you?"
Me: Yada...yada...
Her: "I think we have problem"

Me: "Yes honey, you're not good looking enough for us not to have a problem"

Bottomline: If you're attracted to her, you will make the effort AND vice versa.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wait, so who got stood up? You or her?
 
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It happens. If women are not highly interested they will flake. If her interest is high she would make sure to call or meet you at the set time, unless she has a real issue.
 
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Maxtro said:
It happens. If women are not highly interested they will flake. If her interest is high she would make sure to call or meet you at the set time, unless she has a real issue.
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Here's one for you: "I'm really interested in this guy you know, but if I meet him I'm worried we'll end up having sex because he's fit, so I'm not gonna meet him". That's what sexual choice results in you know ...
 
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What, did a girl say that? What kind of girl is worried that she might have sex with somebody? Either she is taken and is worried about cheating or she's a virgin who is fighting her sex drive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maxtro said:
What, did a girl say that?
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Girl that wants sex - all women do - but is afraid to become a slvt..

I know what's the problem is. This guy is making her afraid that she could come out of this a slvt. He phoned for twice and texed her once. That's saying enough for me that he is not a cool cat who'd provide a woman with hardcore sex with no strings - in other words, somewhat clingy.


Women want sex without consequences, and it is your job to provide it for them.. She don't want to become pregnant, and she don't want to be labeled a slvt. One way to be labeled a slvt is to have sex with a clingy guy. That's like Ewwwwwwwwwwww.


I think the only reason she even hangs around you is because she's not that good looking and that you're remotely cool.
 
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Mr. Wolf you are combining DonJuan11's original post and Mad Manic's post into one. DonJuan11 is obviously not a "cool cat" but I don't know about Mad Manic's situation if he is even talking about himself.

Yes I am aware that all women like and want sex. And I am aware that it's the mans job to make the woman comfortable enough to have sex with him.
 
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Maxtro said:
What, did a girl say that? What kind of girl is worried that she might have sex with somebody? Either she is taken and is worried about cheating or she's a virgin who is fighting her sex drive.
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Lol this is the thought process that goes through girls minds everyday. They are attracted to men but don't sleep with them for reasons like this. It's one thing attracting a woman, it's a completely different thing getting her into bed.
 
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Oh, well thats off topic then.

Still, I've never heard of a woman not meeting a guy because she is so attracted to him that she knows that they are going to have sex but she doesn't want sex so she doesn't meet him. Also I'm 100% sure that is not the problem that DonJuan11 had.
 
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Maxtro said:
Oh, well thats off topic then.

Still, I've never heard of a woman not meeting a guy because she is so attracted to him that she knows that they are going to have sex but she doesn't want sex so she doesn't meet him. Also I'm 100% sure that is not the problem that DonJuan11 had.
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Well it's one of the most common reasons. It explains why girls snog and grind with guys all night in a club but flake for a Day 2 and why girls go through the entire process with a guy but give LMR right at the end for no logical reason. Guys usually miss out on sex for problems OTHER than attraction. If I layed every girl who was attracted to me, I think my count would be damn higher than 3. When I go out I can hook the vast majority of sets and be in set for a long time, get K-Closes, Numbers etc but the whole shabbang is another thing. ****blocking, logistics, her weird emotional thoughts, etc mess it up. Attraction is one phase of three; this game is won and lost in comfort.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No. I'm not combining.



DonJuan11, inner game is off. For reasons stated. Become alpha male.
 
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