Got stood up on Tinder

[RichardTheFrog]

I matched with a fat ugly girl a couple days ago. Talked for a little bit. I had no intention of ever meeting her because she's too fat and ugly and "not into hookups" so how is it worth my time? She said she would get back to me Saturday (yesterday). I had forgotten all about it until today because I didn't care. But apparently that's what happened now that I think of it. So how is this sh1t even worth my time if this is what I have to look forward to? Getting sh1t on by ugly girls?

 

[nmartinez12443]

Online is useless if your not a 8.5 or up facially and even than many girls use it for orbiters and attention. I gave it up long ago, much better to find a bar or social activity (best option) to meet people in person to let your personality show.

 

[sazc]

Hey frog, have you ever image searched the pictures you post online?

If you're doing OLD make sure the pics you lost don't image search back to your felonious history. If she image searches you and find that, she is most likely to ghost.

That said, once she knows your full name, if she internet searches it she is going to find the information, so things may be an uphill battle for you - on multiple fronts

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Hey frog, have you ever image searched the pictures you post online?

If you're doing OLD make sure the pics you lost don't image search back to your felonious history. If she image searches you and find that, she is most likely to ghost.

That said, once she knows your full name, if she internet searches it she is going to find the information, so things may be an uphill battle for you - on multiple fronts

She didn't even know my real name. I use a fake name on Tinder.

Honestly, I don't even care about my past. These girls are gonna judge me while they pet cats all day?

 

[sazc]

She didn't even know my real name. I use a fake name on Tinder.

Honestly, I don't even care about my past. These girls are gonna judge me while they pet cats all day?

Oh, I'm just saying in general.
Image search the pics you are using to make sure you know what they can find out.

Yea, they will judge you even though they are sitting around petting cats all day. Petting cats is a lot different than what you've had in your past.

Your past isn't bland. Eventually you are going to have to learn how to deal with it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Oh, I'm just saying in general.
Image search the pics you are using to make sure you know what they can find out.

Yea, they will judge you even though they are sitting around petting cats all day. Petting cats is a lot different than what you've had in your past.

Your past isn't bland. Eventually you are going to have to learn how to deal with it.

There's no way to deal with it other than to change my name or shoot myself in the head.

I know that these females are not worth more than me despite the fact that I gave them tons of fodder to judge me on.

I think my best bet would be a complete a$$h0le to everyone who judges me on it and judge them in the PRESENT extremely harshly.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

richard, ive gotten "rejected" by 6s and am steady involved with 7-8s and the ocasional 9s (i dont believe in 10s)

what does this mean? absolutely nothing. some women are so deprived of getting their ego stroked that "turning down" a guy clearly above their own SMV is like a concentrated shot of affirmation and inflated sense of self worth.

dont underestimate just how strong the need for female validation and attention is.

not to mention that OLD had the ironic effect of making people more asexual.

why would any girl let you stuff her clam when she can just stuff her hamster with the attentions of sex starved afcs

The problem is that these are the only types of matches that I get, and they are very infrequent. I doubt I would have had any good time with her anyway, but my complete lack of options is my point. I deserve better than this.

You don't believe in 10's? I barely believe in 5's.

A pimp once told me that a girl can never be above a 7. I think it's more like 3.

 

[sazc]

There's no way to deal with it other than to change my name or shoot myself in the head.

I know that these females are not worth more than me despite the fact that I gave them tons of fodder to judge me on.

I think my best bet would be a complete a$$h0le to everyone who judges me on it and judge them in the PRESENT extremely harshly.

I don't think they let felons change their name, for exactly this reason.

I was just thinking you might want to brainstorm and figure out how to delay them finding out for as long as possible, so they could get to know you, as a person, first. I've had some sh1t happen in my life when I was in my early 20s, that I don't mind telling people about, but I prefer if they find out after getting to know me, and I can tell them when I am comfortable. My stuff isn't on the internet tho.

Then again, you have the other sh1t to get past, the fact that you don't really like people... That stuff... You aren't even in a position where you want anyone to get to know you as a person.

Anywhoo this is all just casual comments in passing. Carry on with who you are.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I don't think they let felons change their name, for exactly this reason.

I was just thinking you might want to brainstorm and figure out how to delay them finding out for as long as possible, so they could get to know you, as a person, first. I've had some sh1t happen in my life when I was in my early 20s, that I don't mind telling people about, but I prefer if they find out after getting to know me, and I can tell them when I am comfortable. My stuff isn't on the internet tho.

Then again, you have the other sh1t to get past, the fact that you don't really like people... That stuff... You aren't even in a position where you want anyone to get to know you as a person.

Anywhoo this is all just casual comments in passing. Carry on with who you are.

Oh well. I'll just be an alcoholic.

 

[dustmuffin]

I was stood up by a tinderella yesterday.Do I whine or complain? Nope.....I just move along.

 

[Red Legg]

I have always got laid off of OLD for many years it has been a source of entertainment for me.Tinder or Bumble or POF is something I do only when waiting in a doctors office or takin a sh!t..women have given me numbers I haven't even called yet.....

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I have always got laid off of OLD for many years it has been a source of entertainment for me.Tinder or Bumble or POF is something I do only when waiting in a doctors office or takin a sh!t..women have given me numbers I haven't even called yet.....

Why? Are you extremely good looking?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I was stood up by a tinderella yesterday.Do I whine or complain? Nope.....I just move along.

It's not worth my time to put up with these wh0res who would do a thing like that.

They say they're going to do something. It's unreasonable to expect them to do it? Basic human respect is too much to ask?

And I'm supposed to put the blame on me?

 

[Thorninmyside]

These girls are gonna judge me while they pet cats all day?

Actually, yeah man. OLD has given even the least desirable women on the planet the crazy idea that they get to be picky.

 

[noBSgames]

Actually, yeah man. OLD has given even the least desirable women on the planet the crazy idea that they get to be picky.

That is very true mine was on the crazy side but like any BPD it takes awhile for it to show up..