Got shoved out the conversation by women I was with.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan

Nov 26, 2014

Dear English,
Yes In England or Australia this is very bad manners indeed,but in the US I really don't know...Yeah I would feel indignant too,but the damage is done,you just smile graciously and say enjoy!...It is better to master your feelings than be painted as small minded or cheap...It's surprising how quickly situations can change in life,perhaps one Day you will see her out with a good sort you would like to meet.....don't sweat the small stuff Old Chap!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.