"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got rejected by a girl I reall like, feel like dropping contact with all girls

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So I got rejected by this girl I really liked. Text her to meet up and all I get back is "I don't think we're hanging out again". WTF?!?

So now I feel like crap and just feel like dropping contact with the few girls I'm talking to and just going single for a while. This includes the girl I almost ****ed (who I never really liked anyways).

I don't know why I feel like this, she's just some girl. It doesn't make sense.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know how you feel, man. Same thing happened to me a month ago. DO NOT drop your contacts with other girls. If you do that you won't be able to distract your mind away from this one girl. Continue living your life and meet another pretty lady.
 
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Yeah man don't take a step back.. Sometimes it's easy to want to say Fvck it, but just use it as a learning experience. Your skin is now harder even though it sucks.. Try and look through what you did wrong and fix them for the next time.
Start thinking was I to nice? Did I give her to much of the power? Was I not an alpha male and I didn't lead? Fix them and learn!
 
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You pushed it all the way to a cold hard rejection. You should be proud. It could have been worse. You could have *****ed out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It will pass, I just went through the same..

In a week you'll feel normal and be glad you didn't drop your other plates.
 
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what exactly did you do that prompted this response?
 
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hmm, yeah was feeling a little bummed out this morning. I guess the reason is because out of all the girls I'm talking to this one was the only one I would date and possibly get into a relationship with (and to be honest I'd like to try being in a relationship). So kinda disappointed. Feeling a bit better right now, mainly because I ran into a girl I went out with a while ago (she disappeared for a bit over xmas and new years). We're going out next week so honestly that helped a bit.
 
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OP, you were outcome dependent.

On a real, what you need to do is see if these other girls like you for who you are. That's why it's good to have a safety net.

I know, I'm not highly sought after by women. I'm trying to be successful.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Captain said:
You need to meet more women and have more options so you stop being affected by one rejection so much.
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lol, more like I need better options :p

the girls I am talking to aren't that great and honestly I don't like them that much. This doesn't count the girl I ran into yesterday that I'm seeing next week, I do kind of like her.
 
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