Got played by a f*cing HOR!?!!

[WORKEROUTER]

So I meet this girl in June. We go out a few times, had sex a couple times, and so on. It was not serious...I would see her on average every 2-3 weeks.

Last time I see her was the third week of July. After coming back from vacation, I give her a call and we were supposed to go out this Sunday.

I talk to her on Saturday, and we make arrangements. She is suppose to call up when she gets finished with her work and we're suppose to meet around 7.

Well, 7 comes...no call...9 comes...no call. I end up being f*cking AFC and call her like 5 times that night. Keep in mind that I REALLY WANTED TO F*CK THIS BROAD...I had seriously been looking forward to it for like 3 weeks simply because she is awesome in bed.

That whole night she NEVER CALLS. I end up calling around 11:45 that night, and her roommate picks up claiming she's passed out..at that point I am pretty much punching holes in the f*cking walls! I was FURIOUS. I'm thinking she goes out, gets f*cking drunk with some friends, and then f*cking passes out...STANDING ME UP!

So then I call her around 12 PM this morning to see what the f*cking happened. The phone is picked up and the other person is claiming to be this chick's roomate...but for some reason I feel like it was actually HER. Although there voices do sound similair, it sounded like her...so now I think this f*cking ***** is lieing to me!!

This was the last time I have called her.

Why does this piss me off so much?
First off, like I said, I had been LOOKING FORWARD to banging this broad for almost THREE WEEKS NOW. I was seriously pumped up and ready to go THAT NIGHT. Secondly, we make all these plans a couple days before, and she SEEMED VERY INTERESTED. It just doesn't f*cking make sense to me. I know this broad was into me...why the f*ck would she suddenly decide to pull this kind of bullsh*t?!?! It's CONFUSING. She's never pulled this sh*t on me before..actually, I haven't had a chick try to pull this on me before!

I've tried thinking that maybe she didn't know my number since I got a new phone a few days ago..but I think she has caller ID. If she doesn't and really just didn't know my number, and it WAS her roommate who picked up this morning, then I am going to call her back in a few days. I'm hoping this is the case, because this is the only rationale way I can explain this confusing scenario!

This has been bothering me all day. I really wanted to see this girl and go out with her, and I STILL DO. At the same time, I am not going to continue being a chode and call her back like an AFC with no response.

Any suggestions, comments?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Oneitis rears its ugly head.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

I'm actually dating a couple other chicks...however, I really started to like THIS one, especially having sex with her.

 

[aftershock]

I know the feeling you're experiencing, when you are really looking foward to sex and then you don't get it. Funny I remember one girl where I got a couple of handjobs because it was the time of the month and then we fell out before we could actually have sex. Now THAT was annoying as she was good...but life goes on.

Ganji is your friend here. Let her come to you and apoligise for her actions in the best way possible.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Assuming she KNOWS that I had called (caller ID), did I basically f*ck it up by literally calling her like 5 times in one night?

Is there a way to reconcile this? Or am I basically not going to be able to slam it in her again?

And I am still thinking she MIGHT not have known my number.

 

[aftershock]

Yes, Ganji. Do a search for it, and I think it's in the Bible.

Basically - do not contact her, under any circumstances. This will (1) help you escape your oneitis and (2) if she wants you she will contact you.

5 times in one night is bad, but if she was drunk then she might not have realised, plus caller ID. Still, go ganji. No other option here.

In the meantime, go and find other girls like you've never done before.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

You know that feeling where you KNOW that you shouldn't call her...but you WANT to anyway, really, really badly?

It's a difficult feeling, but I will force myself not to.

 

[Javelin44]

Yup, I learned it from DYD series. There are 3 parts to the human brain. The instinct, the emotional, and the logical. The instinct is the strongest because of what we are programmed to do, survive. Instinct to survive always takes over. The emotional brain is the largest part, therefore it is stronger than the logical part of the brain. When you feel like you shouldn't do something but want to, its the different parts of the brains conflicting. Since the emotional is stronger, you usual do what you think you shouldn't. Feel is stronger than think. Try to control your emotions.

 

[Hurrican]

same **** happened to me bro,

My girlfriend who I really liked and she liked me left for vacation for 2 months. I called her internationally a few times a week which costed me hundreds. I only fuked this one chick while she was gone and I did not really enjoy it. I waited for her for 2 months and my impatients built. I really looked forward to just seeing her again and fuking like chimps.

Then she came back and she had changed like a mother fukin bith. I tried to recreat attration but it has not worked so far. I looked forward to her coming back for 2 months and we had planned romatic **** when she came back on the phone but she was just build me up to fuk me over.

I couldn't beleive it. Girls are fuk with our minds. You where crazy for waiting for 3 weeks. I was about to go kill some enemies for waiting for 2 months.