"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got my eye on this girl

Masos313

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So i walk into subway and recognise this girl working there (solid 8). Shes one of my ex's friends (they arent that close).

She makes initial eye contact and i know from her body language she recognoses me

I order my sandwich (one she made) and go sit down in hope i get a chance to talk to her

She walks over to where im sitting and starts cleaning tables near me

I remind her of the time we did acid together

She laughs and is clearly embarrassed and walks away, i smile at her as she does

I walk out and add her on fb

Find out shes in a relationship

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But now im not really sure what to do. Shes not gonna start messaging me due to the fact she has a bf, and i dont wanna message her cause it will just make me seem desperate

Can anyone offer me some dj advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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