"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Got Layed last night, a lil worried...

Thread starter TonyTheTigerOI
Start date Jul 7, 2005

TonyTheTigerOI

Master Don Juan

Jul 8, 2005

I talked to her about it, she was insulted I even asked - she said that if anything was wrong shed have told me before hand. The redness is about a 1" by 1" area, its a small bit itchy, I dont think its anything bad. Thanks for the concern everyone... if it doesnt completely disapate by next monday Im goin to the docs.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.