“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Got laid on first real date

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Got laid last night on our "first real date". The first time we met up was last week at a bar and my friends were there (so, not sure if that counts).

Anyways, If a girl really digs a guy don't you think SHE WOULDN'T have sex with you so quick? I think this girl is just looking for some **** and no relationship, what do you think?
 

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mahon83050 said:
Got laid last night on our "first real date". The first time we met up was last week at a bar and my friends were there (so, not sure if that counts).

it counts, thats perfect actually since your there with your social circle so she can see what your like around them and how they respond to you

Anyways, If a girl really digs a guy don't you think SHE WOULDN'T have sex with you so quick?

If she really digs a guy shes more likely to have sex with him quick. A lot of people believe that sex is some long term process because of society programming that into us from a young age. Sex is actually a really fast thing and usually if your going to have sex with chick its going to happen within the first 1-4 meetups if its going to happen at all.

I think this girl is just looking for some **** and no relationship, what do you think?

noway for any of us to know that, whats more important here is what you want. Why not ask yourself what it is you want instead then focus on getting it.

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Wow guys here will complain about everything

She wouldn't have sex with me bohoo
She had sex with me bohoo :rolleyes:
 

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mahon83050 said:
Anyways, If a girl really digs a guy don't you think SHE WOULDN'T have sex with you so quick? I think this girl is just looking for some **** and no relationship, what do you think?
You would know if you had asked her what she was looking for.
 

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Maxtro said:
Wow guys here will complain about everything

She wouldn't have sex with me bohoo
She had sex with me bohoo :rolleyes:

EXACTLY. The people here are so confused.

It's too hard to get laid, can you guys make it easier for me?

It's too easy to get laid, can you guys make it more difficult for me?


I swear if you guys win the lottery, half of you will give the money back.
 

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mahon83050 said:
Got laid last night on our "first real date". ...
Congratulations! Hopefully this will inspire you to write more positive threads about what works (and all it took was for you to get laid)! :up:
 

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Maxtro said:
Wow guys here will complain about everything

She wouldn't have sex with me bohoo
She had sex with me bohoo :rolleyes:
Uhhh it's a pretty good question...if a girl easily has sex with you in the first real date, you'd question if she would be a good long term partner or if she was just a hoe.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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well if a girl has sex with you the first night, dont even consider transitioning into a LTR with her...pause for a sec and put things in the proper perspective..., shes probably giving up the puss to guys every weekend
 

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You can't tell ANYTHING about how loose a woman is by how soon she has sex with you. Too many variables.

The biggest slut in the world might make you wait a few dates, just to collar a "good catch" kinda guy. You know that drill.

A "good girl" might really dig you and give it up sooner.

No way to know.

# of dates until sex is NOT a good measure of a girl's past, nor of her future behavior. Ya just never know.

Trust me.
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well it depends on your age and the level of game your running...ive had instances where ive ran basically no game on target chicks and got laid within 2 hours....what did that tell me? haha..you should be able to feel in your gut (which i believe is never-rarely wrong) on whether or not a girl is a smut
 

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A few years ago I dated a fat girl who was a known slut and she didn't give it up to me. How come I didn't get to fvck her while other guys did? It was because my game was horrible.

How soon a girl gives it up is all about how good your game is. If you got to fvck a girl on your first date and she didn't throw herself on you and you were trying to get her, be happy! There is no guarantee that she would have fvcked other guys on their first date.

Don't worry be happy. Hakuna Matata.
 

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my ex and I fcked the first time we met, and she turned out to be an awesome gf, she would do anything for me, still would. We went out for a year and neither of us ever cheated. if the chemistry is right, anything can happen. you shouldn't judge her on her attraction towards you.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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This is where experience comes into play.

In my eyes, most women worthy to be "girlfriend material" will not have sex on the first date. I try to find classy, self-respecting, smart girls if I'm going to plan on being "exclusive" with them.

But there's nothing wrong with a good fvck either, and it doesn't necessarily mean a chick is a ho-bag if she gives it up on the first date. If she understands you don't want a relationship, and neither does she, then it's perfectly fine to have casual sex.

You gotta learn to read people to be able to make accurate assessments of their character. Even then, it's never a sure bet. Some people you'll underestimate, and others will deceive you.
 

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usually i see you complain about looks this or something else. but dude


your racking up the numbers here , 3 already this year

hehe you've got nothing to complain about
 

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KneghtRyder said:
usually i see you complain about looks this or something else. but dude


your racking up the numbers here , 3 already this year

hehe you've got nothing to complain about
3 is not a BIG number anyway. There are guys out there who have sex every week.

I forgot to mention.....this chick already had condoms on her and when I went to the bathroom the next morning, there was another Trojan condom (opened) on the floor. However, I am not sure if that was mine or not (I opened mine in the bedroom.
 

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Maxtro said:
A few years ago I dated a fat girl who was a known slut and she didn't give it up to me. How come I didn't get to fvck her while other guys did? It was because my game was horrible.
How can you mess up game with a fat girl?

That's like missing the empty net from 5 feet away.
 

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3 is not a BIG number anyway. There are guys out there who have sex every week.

I forgot to mention.....this chick already had condoms on her and when I went to the bathroom the next morning, there was another Trojan condom (opened) on the floor. However, I am not sure if that was mine or not (I opened mine in the bedroom.
cool.

well now that you've finally gotten laid, answer the questions that you always ask...


was it (your) looks that got the deal done ?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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