"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got laid for first time. Problem happened. Help much appriciated.

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Please delete this thread.

The people in this forum have changed than it was a few years ago.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's what I thought as well.
But good job on playing it cool and separating yourself from the rest.
 
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These lads holidays usually are in places where desperate old guys go to get girls that the rest of us must work a few years to get with our game at top strength. Not a dj challenge. Cheap airflights and then a hostel. Usually some ex-communist place. I would prefer to stay in a Western European or American city where I have to spend time, money, and my brain to get girls to talk to me. The just showing up as a rich foreigner stuff is for losers. That is why NYC is so great. It will take you months to get a hb9 to go out for coffee with you. It is a man's challenge. Why go to a place where a hb9 will want to go get coffee with you before you even start gaming her?

It is like when I spoke to such person one time. He said that the most beautiful girls smile at him when they walk by. What? You fool! That is not the way of the dj. If they are already interested in you why make yourself a better man! Just sit back and relax and have hb9's try to game you. That is not right! It is our duty to game them. That is why my dream is to move to Monte Carlo or Beverly Hills. Those would be hard places. Would take lots of game to get something. Not a place where I could get a date before with a hb9 before I get finished with unpacking my bags.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you need help with?
You need help getting laid?
You need a condom?
Where to buy one?
I don't get it. No Comprende.
What's the problem? That you didn't have a condom?
And why did you write in your title that you "Got laid" when according to your account you didn't?
 
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