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Got invited to a girls house. Safety in danger?

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This hispanic hb7 invited me to her house tuesdsy. I met her off of okc literally two hours ago. We chatted a bit and i asked her to hang out at starbucks. She said shes more of an inside person and instead invited me to her house. I dont know if i should be suspicious or not. She does not even know my name.

Should i be worried? Or should i go?
 
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is it because she's hispanic. Hispanics are really dangerous, but the media likes to make it look like the blacks are the dangerous ones.
 
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SirFratserlot said:
is it because she's hispanic. Hispanics are really dangerous, but the media likes to make it look like the blacks are the dangerous ones.
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i think he is worried it might be a guy trying to lure him into his lair, basically the OP is afraid of experiencing the Pulp Fiction pawn shop scene in real life
 
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foreverAFC said:
i think he is worried it might be a guy trying to lure him into his lair, basically the OP is afraid of experiencing the Pulp Fiction pawn shop scene in real life
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I mean its nothing specifically. Its just very strange she would invite me to her house without even knowing me. She didnt even ask for my name. It might be a dude, it might not. I dont kno
 
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Treat it like any other stranger you just met on the Internet, that invites you to the house immediately. MY advice is to meet halfway never go all the way for someone else always meets halfway in life.

Rejecting starbucks and house immediately should be a red flag, imagine how many guys she's lured into her lair previously.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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1. I messeaged her first

2. I asked her out. Its not like she sought me out and "found a victim".

Maybe ahe could be super horny lol or does not get a lot of attention from guys so she wants to put out quick
 
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You are Capt.America. You decide if she is a citizen of 'murica or an illegal.

I'm calling out the MODERATORS. Do you guys not realize troll posts? Sh!t. I am all for having an open forum, but deal with the trolls.

If you have even the slightest sniff, ban them. Make it a pay site, I'd support it. Fully. If members are willing to PAY for advice or get their ideas across, it's genuine and deserves consideration. I know that will not happen, but you can spot a potential troll.

Do I have to restore justice and become moderator? Don't make me ban myself!
 
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BeginningDJ said:
You are Capt.America. You decide if she is a citizen of 'murica or an illegal.

I'm calling out the MODERATORS. Do you guys not realize troll posts? Sh!t. I am all for having an open forum, but deal with the trolls.

If you have even the slightest sniff, ban them. Make it a pay site, I'd support it. Fully. If members are willing to PAY for advice or get their ideas across, it's genuine and deserves consideration. I know that will not happen, but you can spot a potential troll.

Do I have to restore justice and become moderator? Don't make me ban myself!
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In no way am i trolling. This is a legitimate question as this is my first time doing online dating
 
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I'd be very cautious. That "Dexter" copycat killer in Canada used internet dating to lure guys to his home. As soon as they got inside he used a stun gun on em.
Normal chicks don't invite random men to their home unless they're drunk and horny and have met him in person.
 
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