Got into a hissy and drunk dialed the ex at 3am....

[Last Man Standing]

Well I wrote her this:

I was drunk and I dialed you number by accident. Good thing you didn't pick up. That would have been a surprise. lol

Ahh the "lol"s. They bring so much levity to a reply.

Done and done. Hopefully that'll be it.

That's good! LOL!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I'm playing with fire here. F*cking playing with fire...


She wrote back an hour later saying:

I figured that might be it. That would have been funny! I was knocked out on Nyquil, so there was no waking me up.

She's opening me. She knows how much I like NyQuil. Damn her!!

 

[Last Man Standing]

Well, this is what you wanted - you opened a can of worms.

MySpace texting hell.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Well I'm certainly not going to call her. That'll just be another can of worms. -_-

 

[joekerr31]

if you keep this going you'll be acting like a chic.

right now she's got a big smile on her face because you just gave her a huge shot ego heroin.

time to move on now

 

[jophil28]

I'm playing with fire here. F*cking playing with fire...


She wrote back an hour later saying:

I figured that might be it. That would have been funny! I was knocked out on Nyquil, so there was no waking me up.

She's opening me. She knows how much I like NyQuil. Damn her!!

Yes you are playing with fire you d**khead - go back and read my reply(#5)

BY replying to her MySpace "hook" , you have reawakened your emotions and triggered off her "mindgames" .
YOu just HAD to listen to the misguided advice from the guys here who gave you just enough encouragement to text her back.
In so doing you stirred a sleeping dragon ..
If you text her back AGAIN please don't waste our time with any more of these highschool dramatics. My Space is for teens,retards and Narcissists.
Get a grip ,man. Listen to the VOE next time ( that would be the VOICE OF EXPERIENCE)

 

[ketostix]

Exactly. If you don't respond, that looks even worse. As a matter of fact, you have waited too long! All women secretly think they are the sh!t and will think of the best case scenario when you don't tell them what's up. Often at your expense! (This can work in the opposite way too, but only if she was into you). In this case, she thinks you are still in love with her, and always will be forever and ever more.

Call her! ASAP! Tell her you haven't had time to respond, yadayadayada, and sorry for the misconception, but you meant to dial Exandra, not Ex-girlfriend. OK!!!

I can't believe that I would agree with a girl and one as annoying as iqqi nonetheless.

All women secretly think they are the sh!t and will think of the best case scenario when you don't tell them what's up. Often at your expense! (This can work in the opposite way too, but only if she was into you).

I think this totally sums up women's reality.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I think I'll just pour gasoline over my head.



...Got a light, anyone?

 

[Aenigma]

Should have messaged her back "Bootycall- was wasted and forgot that you're not one of my ****buddies anymore.... speaking of which, what are you doing at 3 AM tonight?"

Regardless of what happens, you win!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Yeah I messaged back with something along those lines.


Well if anyone doesn't want to see me get burned stay out of my topic. It's ok to say I told you so though. Hahahaha. I don't care at this point right now.

I'm in for a nice lesson.

 

[vitor]

if its over why is her number in your cell and why is she not blocked from your myspace page?

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I know her number by heart. I wish I didn't. Hahaha.

She's not blocked because I didn't want her to know she was getting to me.

Although after the sh!t I pulled over the last few days she probably knows more than ever. -_-

 

[movistar]

NO, deleting a girls details is NOT lame. I don't buy this self-absorbed crap that says that deleting a girl means that she has "got" to you. ? Of course she has annoyed you (and "got to you " ) otherwise you would not be having drama. Deleting them hurts them deeply because it is a REJECTION and women woud rather lose an arm or a leg than feel rejected .
Deleting a girls details means that you have removed her and her details from your life. You are setting limits and boundaries and now she is on the other side of the DMZ .

Drunk dialing is lame, and explaining and apologizing is girly - it makes it worse.
Who the F**K cares what she thinks ? If she cared about you or you cared about her she would not be your ex !

Jophil is right on point, this is the best advice. You need to adopt this attitude who the f**k cares what she thinks. Say that to yourself and really believe it.

 

[joekerr31]

the ONLY reason a man attempts to explain his behavior to a woman is if he cares what said woman thinks about him.

money says thunder is banging his ex within a month.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Well I sent Rollo a PM...


I guess you don't know half the story, Private Jokerr.

Expect a barrage of them in a few minutes. LOL

 

[ThunderMaverick]

BAAGH! Jokerr clear your private messages already!

 

[iqqi]

BAAGH! Jokerr clear your private messages already!

Who cares what Jokerr thinks? Why do you have to explain yourself to him? His whole advice was to NOT give a fvck what ppl think. That would include him. Now you are going to swamp his PM box with explanations??

 

[juice veteran]

i know i wouldnt have replied, and i wouldnt have given a **** if she thought she had got to me or i was avoiding her or whatever

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Who cares what Jokerr thinks? Why do you have to explain yourself to him? His whole advice was to NOT give a fvck what ppl think. That would include him. Now you are going to swamp his PM box with explanations??

Jesus! Cut me some slack! I'm not perfect! LOL

 

[NeverFear]

election

this type of thing was referenced in the movie election

it shows she has power over you