"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Got hots for a teacher

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Alright, dont take this as a joke and no im not making up any story, of crouse im new to the game but i really think this teacher has a thing for me.
She came in during december and everyone was telling me how hot she was. Fast forward to an exam, i enter my class and i notice this lady. She is supposed to supervise us and she sits right next to me during this exam when she was supposed to sit in the front with the other man teacher, who was flirting with her. She decided to sit all the way in the back right next to me instead, and was clearly ignoring the man teacher. She kept looking over to me but i kept my cool.
Fast forward, every day in thehalls she would stare at me constantlyl. Okay I dont know if thats a sign but this happened every time. Sometimes i would catch her watchign and she wuodl look away quickly.
Last day of school, i have her as a teacher finnaly and get introduced. I didnt really seem obsssesive , just acted chill and everything and slept looking uninterested. I noticed when i would rise up from my sleep she would be just be staring at me. Now I know this seems awkward, but she is bangin.
Ive read a lot about the bible and stuff, but its relaly awkward as shes a teacher. What can i actually do to "get her",? I know its illegal etc but it woudl be fun trying to go as far as I can. Thanks fellas
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you read the gunwitch method? Read it. All of it, and then, focus on the "isolation" part. Especially with this woman, it isn't in any of you two's interest to be seen going out together at the movies, and whatever.

I'm thinking you are like.. 16? Anyways, you live with your parents, is there a time when your house is alone? If not, put in the idea with her of you renting a great movie, if she puts the venue (her house), so that you two "watch a movie".

Questions?
 

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No, she does not like you. You will look like an idiot in front of the teacher, the staff, and all your friends. Ignore and move on.
 

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I'm guessing shes a student teacher, meaning she's probably in college. If this is the case, flirt it up buddy. Go for it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let me flip the script here for a second.

I work for the largest school system in the city where I live, but am not a teacher. I travel to all of the schools and administrative buildings to perform my job. As such, I run into LOTS of hot female teachers and high school girls. I've had several of these high school girls make passes at me, and although it's a supreme compliment, the policy for me is strictly hands off. The lady teachers are a different story of course, but they are older and I wouldn't be risking my job.
Now it's not like I don't pay any attention to these girls, as some of them are pretty cool and fun to talk to, but it's off limits and they know that (fortunately I've never had to say it out loud - it's understood).

As for your situation, I can easily see this girl/student teacher/whatever maybe thinking something about you (hey, you bet I'd like to bang those HS girls I mentioned), but actually getting her to act on it is a different story entirely. She would be putting her job on the line, and she'd be stupid to think that word would not get around if you two happened to hook up. Look at it from her perspective. Then again, all I have to go on is what you've said above, so it may be possible.
If I were you, I'd try to isolate her somewhere and try to see what she's thinking. Just try talking to her one-on-one away from everyone else (where she would feel safe saying anything) and see how she responds to you. Go with the gut and the DJB.
 

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SamePendo said:
Have you read the gunwitch method? Read it. All of it, and then, focus on the "isolation" part. Especially with this woman, it isn't in any of you two's interest to be seen going out together at the movies, and whatever.
Listen to that guy this is exactly what I do to all the hot teachers. I gave my guidance counselor same sexual state thingy and we actually sat there for a good 5 seconds just sub communicating sex. Then she some how remembers me (The day I did the Gunwitch sh!t was the first time she ever really met me) So she calls me one day down to her office and her just chillin relaxed and everything, cleavage like crazy and I'm giving her EC while looking down her blouse and she didn't even bother to break EC or cover up.
 

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One of the "bouncers" at my highschool got fired for hooking up with some of the HS girls, even if they were seniors.
 

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LongDrinkofWater said:
Let me flip the script here for a second.

I work for the largest school system in the city where I live, but am not a teacher. I travel to all of the schools and administrative buildings to perform my job. As such, I run into LOTS of hot female teachers and high school girls. I've had several of these high school girls make passes at me, and although it's a supreme compliment, the policy for me is strictly hands off. The lady teachers are a different story of course, but they are older and I wouldn't be risking my job.
Now it's not like I don't pay any attention to these girls, as some of them are pretty cool and fun to talk to, but it's off limits and they know that (fortunately I've never had to say it out loud - it's understood).

As for your situation, I can easily see this girl/student teacher/whatever maybe thinking something about you (hey, you bet I'd like to bang those HS girls I mentioned), but actually getting her to act on it is a different story entirely. She would be putting her job on the line, and she'd be stupid to think that word would not get around if you two happened to hook up. Look at it from her perspective. Then again, all I have to go on is what you've said above, so it may be possible.
If I were you, I'd try to isolate her somewhere and try to see what she's thinking. Just try talking to her one-on-one away from everyone else (where she would feel safe saying anything) and see how she responds to you. Go with the gut and the DJB.
Get off the board you sicko pedo. You actually admit you think girls way younger than you are hot?
 

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Google "teacher student sex" and you'll be surprised. Its all the rage nowadays.

I say, go for it! If nothing else, you'll walk away with a helluva story afterwards.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nobody said:
Get off the board you sicko pedo. You actually admit you think girls way younger than you are hot?

Seeing as how there is very little difference physically between a 17 year old girl and a girl in her mid 20's its not that uncommon. Now, if he was talking about middle schoolers and sh*t, that'd be just weird.
 

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Get off the board you sicko pedo. You actually admit you think girls way younger than you are hot?
dont be blinded by political correctness. every fool knows that men like young women, ecspecially in their hs years. we dont talk about it much, its a given. unless youre secretly a woman, you should know this.
 

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Could you kinda describe how this gunwitch method works? She gives me so many signs its not even funny, but then she looks right away if i catch her looking at me, lol its so funny but hey ill give it a try. and if you have any good ways i can kinda advance, that would be good
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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THE Gunwitch Method. This is supposing you allready know your a,b,c's.. (allready read the bible and have gotten some #s etc in your lifetime).

Read the whole thing, it's long, but will it is damn worth it, and you will make a shrine to Gunwitch.

After you read it, I'll give you specific ideas on general ways to approach her and make this work.
 

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Alright I read the whole entire article, and I get the concept about it. But to use on a teacher, Im gonna need your help. On moving up day (1st day you meet teachers) then your off for summer, i stared at her for a bit, i was laughin with my buds, and i put my head down pertending i was sleepin. I caught her lookin at me when i went up so I started laughin. I know thats bad impression on my part, but I wanna start new after summer. Any help on that pendo? and the initial approach, I wanna get her attention.
Btw this teacher is turning 23 this summer, so fairly young.
I gotto change my act, i really wanna get her next year
 
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I didn't really get the laughing scenario thingy...

Other basic reads (which are in the bible):

Pimpology 101 part 1, Part ll, and part lll. Be sure to read them.

Initial approach:

Be sure to do so when you two are alone, or away from everyone else, go with "Hi".. don't ask her name etc if you allready know her.. if you know all the basic info from part l,ll, and lll, go with "I'm glad you're here this year too, what did you do on holidays?"

I would advice you to do the pickup in two stages:

first- the hi, and basic get-to-know-her
second- "im glad youre here this year too, what..." followed by some fluff talk, and then, bang, tell her you two should totally hang out sometime.. if she sounds enthusiastic, tell her "yeah.. tell you what, why don't we watch a movie some time? I put the movie and you put the venue" .. or something by those lines, without adding or changing much. If she doesn't sound very enthusiastic.. or act very enthusiastic, hang in there a while, game her a bit more further on, and she WILL go for the bait.

Did I explain myself?

When are you returning to class? Any details, feel free to share them with us.
 

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Join the club homey. Yo post a picture of yourself, so we can see how u look thats the only way I can see she likes u, is your looks. If u aren't good looking then this may just be all in yoour head.
 

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Go for it, there's only one way to know for sure if this is reall or not.

I wouldnt personally worry about much aftermath since if your wrong chances are she wont make a big deal of it. Think about it: this is actually easier than a girl in your own class in a way since you dont really have to let anyone (cept us :D ) know you even tried.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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