"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got hired at a popular clothing store. how can i make the most of it?

The_Crack

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Hey guys, i just recently landed a job in a pretty popular fashion store. It's located in the middle of a busy plaza and it gets alot of female traffic!
There are also alot of simliar stores next to mine, who have SMOKING HOT girls who work there who are around my age (19). As does the place i'm at.
I mainly applied because it would help my game get better haha. Its just a casual summer job so i don't really care of "****ting where i eat".

I'm planning on gaming customers, employees and neighboring employees. I'm going to play it cool, not come on to strong. I mean i do have all of summer and possibly all of next year, so yeah i want to see how much i can improve my social ability and skills.

Any tips?
Many of you been in the same situation? How did you handle it?

I start next week :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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I used to work at Abercrombie. I was there for almost two years. It's pretty lame and the only perk is easily getting close to hotties and the natural environment to flirt with customers by being nice. There's really no advice, just go with the flow. Don't make it too complicated. Just take advantage of the situation while you're there.

When I go back there to check out what's new. I usually laugh at the guys in my head. I was never one of the dudes there who tried taking the job too serious, and I was the goofiest one doing stupid things to pass the boredom. The girls are hot and naturally for the image, but the guys usually look like tools with pretentious "Ivy League" hairstyles and button shirts half tucked in, but being scrawny as a pubescent boy.

If I had to give advice, it'd be to not take the job and coworkers that take the job seriously...seriously. Don't be a tool trying to fit the store's image to a tee.
 

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Flirt as much as you can. You have plausible deniability since you are just helping the girls out and being friendly.

Edit: Befriend all the girls at your store, go out on lunch breaks with them and etc... This will also help you out.
 

The_Crack

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Michele said:
I used to work at Abercrombie. I was there for almost two years. It's pretty lame and the only perk is easily getting close to hotties and the natural environment to flirt with customers by being nice. There's really no advice, just go with the flow. Don't make it too complicated. Just take advantage of the situation while you're there.

When I go back there to check out what's new. I usually laugh at the guys in my head. I was never one of the dudes there who tried taking the job too serious, and I was the goofiest one doing stupid things to pass the boredom. The girls are hot and naturally for the image, but the guys usually look like tools with pretentious "Ivy League" hairstyles and button shirts half tucked in, but being scrawny as a pubescent boy.

If I had to give advice, it'd be to not take the job and coworkers that take the job seriously...seriously. Don't be a tool trying to fit the store's image to a tee.
Ah i don't think this store is anything like abercombie, its a small retail outlet called Factorie. Its pretty big in Australia but not so much international, and is based towards young adults looking for the casual look kinda thing. So yeah, i have no reason whatsoever to take the job real serious. They hired me because i fit what they are looking for, i'm laid back and chill. And i fit their look.
 

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ArcBound said:
Flirt as much as you can. You have plausible deniability since you are just helping the girls out and being friendly.

Edit: Befriend all the girls at your store, go out on lunch breaks with them and etc... This will also help you out.
Yeah thats what i was planning on doing. I can flirt with customers but i won't really come off as a flirt because im just doing my job right? Flying in under the radar haha
i've been to the store a few times and flirted heaviliy with the girls who work there.. i kinda think one of the babes there put in a good word for me and thats how i got the job.

Thanks man
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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haha yeah all about going with the flow. Should be nice ;)

any other tips?
 

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I have been a network administrator for over 15 years and would totally take a job like that for a little while just to game the ladies... go with the flow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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