"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aesthetix29

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okay so I met this girl on a tinder like app called happn or something .. Which picks up local girls that you've crossed paths with ... Anyways we chatted last night and I ended up getting her number. I said I'd text her today once I was free and am just about too do so but don't want to send the normal lame 'hey, you okay' sh!t. What will help me deal the deal here ... Help a bro out ha.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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okay so I met this girl on a tinder like app called happn or something .. Which picks up local girls that you've crossed paths with ... Anyways we chatted last night and I ended up getting her number. I said I'd text her today once I was free and am just about too do so but don't want to send the normal lame 'hey, you okay' sh!t. What will help me deal the deal here ... Help a bro out ha.
Come on bro. If you are afraid to text her to set up a date, what are you going to do when you want to have sex with her?

Just say 'Would you like to join me after work for a drink?' How hard is that? You guys make this dating and having sex with women thing harder than advanced calculus or getting a PhD. Do you guys not go through struggles in everyday life? Have you guys not faced any type of adversity growing up? You are dealing with one Tinder girl who has probably slept with quite a few guys and is looking to have sex with you too.

Act like you are a king, a,CEO, a President. Don't be afraid of a Tinder girl who is looking for validation.
 

Aesthetix29

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Let's say something along the lines of this:-

Hey xxxx, I'm free next weekend we should do something?

Let's say she replies:- okay ... like what?

Me:- that depends on what type of girl you are ;) ?

And so on ...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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