"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got her number! What now!? Please Advise!

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Hi there,

I met and pulled this woman I really liked in a club last night! I got her number and aim to call her soon. The problem is:

1) when should I text/call her without seeming too keen or not keen enough! Obviously I met her thurs night, so was thinking of either calling or texting her tommorow (1 and a half days since getting her number. Too soon or just right?

2) Also, do you think I should text her first in the case that if she's not interested i'll know if she doesn't reply!

3) I was thinking of getting in a texting conversation with her. Though first text would involve just a simple text along the lines of hi, how r u? Did you have a good night thurs? A bit about what i thought and then ask her wot she's been up to later - what do you think? Then after a few texts replying to one anothers questions i'll ask her if she wants to meet up sometime! That's when i'll call her a few days later to arrange the date!?

What do you think of my strategy? Agree/ disagree any suggestions/ recommendations?

Thanks for listening I'd really appreciate some feedback, although i'm 20 and pull a fair bit at clubs its this stage that always gives me the problem! Wooing these girls after getting their number they usually just say they have a boyfriend and thus cant.
Anyway cheers ppl
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BrotherAP

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Call her today. If she doesn't answer, call her again in a few hours. If she doesn't answer then, send her a text message telling her that you don't appreciate rude behavior, then withdraw for a few hours so that she's really wondering about you, let her interest build, and then call her tommorrow no more than three times. If you still don't hear from her (which means she's probably playing hard to get), wait at least until Monday to call her again - and give her a compliment in the message.
 
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dont call her 3 times a day. the most i would ever recommend you call her is twice a day.then skip a day or two.i say skip two days if you call twice and she doesnt answer. just call her up the first time and see whats up with her for 5-10 minutes.call her in few days after that talk for 5-10 then ask her out and end the call. then see her on the next date.simple as that.
 
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For the love of God....

Wait until Monday. Call her at 9:00 at night. Fluff talk for two minutes then ask her to join you for something like a drink or two.

If she doesn't answer, call back on Wednesday.

If she doesn't answer, call again the following Monday and leave a brief message.

It's really quite simple.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
Read the dj bible! do you know how many times 'what to do after you get the number' has been asked???
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That, and do a search.
 
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