"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got her making out...but she's a novice

DJoneday

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I have my girl making out with me with tongue pretty much whenever I want it, and I'm doing it all right - Moving my hands around, not choking her with my tongue, pulling back a little bit to build up anticipation, then going back in, kissing around neck/ears/chest etc. (any tips on how to do better, let me know) anyways the problem is that I'm the first guy she's made out with, second guy she's kissed...and in short, she's not very good at it. She's hella hot and an awesome girl, but it's hard to get into it a whole lot, as she just opens and closes her mouth, sticking her tongue out when it's open.

She's new to all this, so I'm not holding it against her, I just want to know how I can get her a little better at this...maybe talking to her about it? I'm just not sure. Any tips would help like crazy.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blienk

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Well, they say practice makes perfect...so make sure you give her lots of practice! Fun for both of you!

No, but really...I'm sure she wouldn't be offended if you just give her some suggestions on how to improve. Next time you're making out, just say "try doing (whatever)". I'm sure she's aware of her own inexperience and will take your advice.
 

Grey Fox

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Hold on, don't tell her like a teacher how she can improve. She'll be insulted if you approach it like that. Show her, unleash that inner freak in her. The more you get her to open up the better she'll get.

-Grey Fox
 

blienk

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I suggested that he come out and tell her because he says

"I'm doing it all right - Moving my hands around, not choking her with my tongue, pulling back a little bit to build up anticipation, then going back in, kissing around neck/ears/chest etc."

So it sounds to me like he's already doing a lot more than her and she's not picking up the slack. Maybe coming out and saying something could be a little awkward, but this chick has to learn somehow.
 

LikRetsam

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Playfully call her on it. Pull back and say "pfft, amateur". "Lemme show you how it's done".

It's worked for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The best way to get what you want, is demand it. Dont make fun of her (lik, you retard, that only works on experienced girls who are slackin off). Instead, build up lots of anticipation next time. As soon as you start kissing, take the "top" role. Grab her LIGHTLY by the back of head/hair, and bend her head to a position so you can kiss... do it slowly and strongly. After a minute, lean back [just enough to look in her eyes] and tell her what you want.

"Put your tongue in my mouth, slowly, like this" <do it to her>

"Bite my lip" <do it to her>

"Kiss my neck" <do it to her>

"Put your hands on me" <do it to her>

Tell her what you want, do it, let her do it, and then kiss regularly for a while, and repeat. When she does what you want, let out a lil moan, something to let her know shes doing it right - "That feels SO good."

Dont be ****y, dont be funny. Just be the experienced man on top who knows what he wants. Simple - 1 2 3 =)
 
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