"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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got her #, but she has an ex. what happened here?

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met a girl at a happy hr 2 days ago. she wanted to exchange numbers. i got hers, she made sure i called her so she could save the number.

txt her today asking for dinner. she responds playfully, referencing a dirty joke i said at the happy hr, but no answer re dinner. we chit chat for a bit:

Her: "i'm writing a note right now that's due tomorrow, and I kinda wanna cry."

me: why do 2Ls [ed: 2nd year law students] put so much work on themselves?

her: i dont think it's all 2Ls. just me. blah

her: itll all be over soon at least

me: you're telling me. i already have the foot out the door

me: i want to see you this week (head to europe on sat), preferably after ur note is handed in, and preferably after youre done crying.

and here's the punchline

her: I don't think it'll work - it's kinda complicated but basically my ex is coming to visit this week :|

her: just thought instead of going around in circles about this stuff i'd just lay it out there.

me: idk what u were expecting after thursday, but it's all good

what should i do? forget about it? text when i get back from spring break? what went wrong?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You can't do anything about that, and there is nothing that went wrong. People have ex's, and they pop them back in their lives. Chalk it up to bad timing, and either forget about her, or try back at a later date.
 
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This seems pretty clear.

She felt the need to tell you... why?

Because it is something you need to know... why?

Because now that you know she expects you not to see her anymore... why?

Because she's going to FKCU him.

"I don't think it will work"

She laid it out for you plain and simple. If she's interested she'll get in touch with you again later. You've already got some repoire and you're in contact so don't next her, but don't contact her again.
 
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i was leaning toward forgetting about it. but i think imma hit her up when i get back from the biz trip
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so the consensus is that im pretty awesome and i should next or possibly contact w innucouos line in 2 weeks?

(and also learn how to spell hahahha)
 
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thanks man.

ive got my magnum condoms, my wad of hundreds. im ready to plow!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Judge nismo says go no contact, go get another girl, this girl is gonna get railed by her ex, spin more goddamn plates.

Acta exteriora iudicant interiora secreta. When you get a GF, live on inside her head. As for this one, nolle prosequi.

Case closed.
 
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