"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys, first post.

A few weeks back one of my friends took me to a club.

We're on the dance floor and throughout the night 4 girls come up and dance with me, all of them HB8 to HB9. (Girls came up to dance with me -awesome!)

I haven't been clubbing in 2 to 3 years. I can't dance at all. I pull my 'straight white man' moves, but that's it. :woo:

I lost all of them. I just didn't know what the hell to do.

Is there anywhere online that shows men how to dance without looking gay?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wy not go at a dance club? You will meet lots of women at places like that. ;)

But if you want online...do a google search lol. I'm sure you will find a fair amount of sites - everything can be found on the internet these days.

EDIT: I actually meant dance lessons (not a dance club...or is that the same thinG?...well Im not sure). Sorry, English isn't my mothr language.
 

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I would say dance lessons...if thats the avenue you like to pull women down. Personally i cant stand pulling on the dance floor. I cant dance for **** and dont like to. You cant talk to a girl there. The only thing i would do in your situation is when a girl comes up to you and dances with you. Introduce abit of Kino. Hands on her hips. Dance with her... Then ask her if she wants a to go get a drink or if she wants to go somewhere quietier. On a yes....take it from their and work your magic in convo. I would kino on the dance floor first to establish she is dancing with you not just near you....
 

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They were all definitely dancing with me, not near me. Some of them made eye contact from across the room and came over...which is strangely new and scary :nervous:

Dancing lessons cost money, which I'm lacking right now, so I'll look online.

I'm having a wild weekend in Nottingham soon, so knowing this stuff is now vital.
 

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I was in the same position some years ago, I took some techno music and started to dance in front of a mirror to see how it looked. Of course I made sure no one was around to watch, and some moves I really embarrassed myself with on the dance floor but I learnt after a while. :up:
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I'll give that a whirl.

Actually, I'll record it on my camera and see how the whole 'technique' looks.
No, I will not post it online :p
 

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CaptainSausage said:
I'm having no luck finding anything online that isn't teaching me to breakdance, wants me to buy or book or is just bloody hilarious.

for example: http://www.zefrank.com/indexdance.html :D
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CaptainSausage said:
Is there anywhere online that shows men how to dance without looking gay?
hahaha, lol, that is the sentence man!!!:crackup: :up: , i think it´s almost impossible, moving your hips just makes everyone look gay!!!! it´s normal, don´t worry
 

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Try looking up what kind of dance you are interested in. Hip hop, Ballroom, waltz, Breakdance, floor routines? Look it up. If anything, you can just try the base steps, but that's usually boring.

-Damian
 
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