"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainSausage

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Hi guys, first post.

A few weeks back one of my friends took me to a club.

We're on the dance floor and throughout the night 4 girls come up and dance with me, all of them HB8 to HB9. (Girls came up to dance with me -awesome!)

I haven't been clubbing in 2 to 3 years. I can't dance at all. I pull my 'straight white man' moves, but that's it. :woo:

I lost all of them. I just didn't know what the hell to do.

Is there anywhere online that shows men how to dance without looking gay?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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snobby

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Wy not go at a dance club? You will meet lots of women at places like that. ;)

But if you want online...do a google search lol. I'm sure you will find a fair amount of sites - everything can be found on the internet these days.

EDIT: I actually meant dance lessons (not a dance club...or is that the same thinG?...well Im not sure). Sorry, English isn't my mothr language.
 

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I would say dance lessons...if thats the avenue you like to pull women down. Personally i cant stand pulling on the dance floor. I cant dance for **** and dont like to. You cant talk to a girl there. The only thing i would do in your situation is when a girl comes up to you and dances with you. Introduce abit of Kino. Hands on her hips. Dance with her... Then ask her if she wants a to go get a drink or if she wants to go somewhere quietier. On a yes....take it from their and work your magic in convo. I would kino on the dance floor first to establish she is dancing with you not just near you....
 

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They were all definitely dancing with me, not near me. Some of them made eye contact from across the room and came over...which is strangely new and scary :nervous:

Dancing lessons cost money, which I'm lacking right now, so I'll look online.

I'm having a wild weekend in Nottingham soon, so knowing this stuff is now vital.
 

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I was in the same position some years ago, I took some techno music and started to dance in front of a mirror to see how it looked. Of course I made sure no one was around to watch, and some moves I really embarrassed myself with on the dance floor but I learnt after a while. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CaptainSausage

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I'll give that a whirl.

Actually, I'll record it on my camera and see how the whole 'technique' looks.
No, I will not post it online :p
 

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CaptainSausage said:
I'm having no luck finding anything online that isn't teaching me to breakdance, wants me to buy or book or is just bloody hilarious.

for example: http://www.zefrank.com/indexdance.html :D
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CaptainSausage said:
Is there anywhere online that shows men how to dance without looking gay?
hahaha, lol, that is the sentence man!!!:crackup: :up: , i think it´s almost impossible, moving your hips just makes everyone look gay!!!! it´s normal, don´t worry
 

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Try looking up what kind of dance you are interested in. Hip hop, Ballroom, waltz, Breakdance, floor routines? Look it up. If anything, you can just try the base steps, but that's usually boring.

-Damian
 
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