Got first number, now problem

[Hache]

Ok last night outside student place where I live I met this girl, briefly, drunk flirting. Later that night I see her in the club, where I go up to her, talk a little, dance sexually (hubba hubba lol), then I got her number and went back to my friends.

I txt her 6 hours ago saying pretty much hi did you have a good night blah blah. She hasnt replied. Now I know there can be many reasons, but anyway my female flatmates are teasing me about her and know I txt, they keep asking has she replied, so I look a bit of a tit at the moment

So when should I txt again and what with?

As you can tell I am still chode, this is my first number so go easy on me :trouble:

 

[King_Supreme]

relax, dont text again at all today. go get some more numbers. besides she could be in class or at work with her phone off or something. call fri afternoon and try to setup a date for fri nite or sat. (well sat is sweetest day so dont do that) in fact since sat is sweetest day if u do talk to her say "well since sat is sweetest day where r u taking me out to?"

if she doesnt answer leave a message if u like "hey this [name] from outsidee the student place the other night, hit me back" then delete her number instantly so that your chodiness dosnt kick in and you keep calling back.

 

[Hache]

I dont think she will remember me haha, we were very drunk, infact I do not remember her face that well, only her bum cheeks. The problem is mainly my female friends, I mean they wouldn't wait that long to reply, the 3 day rule doesnt exist for them in this UK student world where everyone is young and thus impatient.

I mean the problem here is not necessairly the having to next someone, it is social pressure

I understand not to txt again today though, that will make me look a bit desperate lol

 

[King_Supreme]

lol. there is no uk or usa student world. there is only the world of men and women. the rules and the game apply across the board and break all language barriers. lol

as far as her not remembering you, i banged chicks i met in the club who didnt remeber me when i called. if she says on the phone i dont remeber you i just say "well i was obviuosly cute enough for u to give your number to me so whats up?"

 

[Hache]

Their are social and cultural differences.

Either way the thought of ringing someone up instead of texting just does not happen much at all where I am. None of the girls I live with would want to be called up and asked out in this situation. Most brit male and female dont do sober game, especially those I go to university with.

 

[Von_S]

If she was that drunk she probably doesn't remember you exactly. She remembers she spoke to someone but probably couldn't pick you out of a line up, and it sounds like you couldn't either. If she doesn't respond no big deal, next time ease up on the booze, it should make you relaxed not sloppy.

 

[Hache]

The thing is when we walked past each other in the club she recognised me, she pinched my arm. So maybe she just cant put a name to the face. Either that is why she isn't replying or she doesnt want anything to do with me.

There must be a good way to turn this around, some cheeky txt I can send or something

 

[Julian]

What would a real man do?

 

[Hache]

Call her and ask her out...

 

[Julian]

Call her and ask her out...

Not sure why theres a fkking thumbs down on this post.


Anyway, yea bloke, just ask yourself that question "what would a real man do" everytime doubt creeps its ugly little face into your thoughts.

 

[Desdinova]

I txt her 6 hours ago saying pretty much hi did you have a good night blah blah.

If you want an even more dull txt message, here's something I copied from weather.com:

UV Index:
2 Low
Wind:
From NE at 7 mph
Humidity:
68%
Pressure:
30.03 in.
Dew Point:
54°F
Visibility:
6.2 miles
Sunrise:
5:47 AM
Sunset:
5:06 PM

When you txt a woman the day after you meet her, you need to remain relevant if you'd like to get a date. You could send something like "You up yet, or are you one of those bad girls who lays in bed all day? "

Being one extreme (either too polite or an a55hole) will not interest her. You need to find a nice medium that will grab her attention. It has to provoke a response, and an interesting or funny txt message will do just that.