"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Got Dumped need Advice

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cooldragon23

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My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago and i pretty much begged her to get back with me. She did hesitantly and for the next few weeks things were just bad. She just didnt see me that way.

That made me more mad and i acted like a total *****. I got mad if she didnt call or didnt want to hang out. After reading these forums i feel pathetic because of my actions.

Finally, we talked yesterday about everything and she said she wants to be friends but really good friends. Also, If we wanted to be together then i wouldnt be a priority. I told her that it wouldnt work either way but never offically ended the whole thing.

She ended up calling me to hang out for a little bit but then quickly changed her mind saying her mom called...bull****. then she calls to talk to me about whatever.

Now this is all stupid to me. I want this to be more than just a friendship or a relationship where its convinent for her. So I am thinking of letting her know that we should just not contact eachother at all.

I really miss her and i dont have any other girls that i am talking. my confidence is really low and hoping to stay contact with her is killing me too. So what do u guys think. Should i just let her know that we cant be friends and that we shouldnt stay in contact? How do you all deal with breakups cause i am having a really tough time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Its over man, It sucks, Its tough, Its painful. All you can do is just rebuild yourself. Talk/hang out with your friends, make new friends, start new hobbies, get your goals and dreams in order, travel, watch some movies, read some books, meet new girls. It'll take time for sure. Its something everyone has to go through.
 
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i don't understand why men get tied down to one girl. it's great to have relationship, but why the hell do you have to get tied down. why does it have to be her? it doesn't make sense. this has all to do with inner game and i know great way to develop inner game. be a fvcking MAN. buy books on amzon on being a man and read articles on being a man. develop your philosophy and get involved in some deep stuff. trust me, a single girl is not going to and should not fvck up a man's life. be a MAN first
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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