Got cut off!

[MacAvoy]

I met this chick online over a year ago but was in a serious relationship but kept stringing her along. After my relationship was over, started chattin with her more. All this time, was using ****y & funny and we always talked about getting it on.

We finally met on New Year's eve in person and she was really sick and didn't drink. She was playin real shy but at the end of the nite, used some moves and we made some magic. A few weeks later we went out again but she was really shy or withdrawn.

I dropped her for a while, to not come off as a wussy and we have slowly started chatting more. I keep busting her up. But my question is how can I take it back to the sex level again. Recently she told me she never meant to sleep with me the first time and she just wanted to be friends. I am not interested in a long term relationship and just want to taste that sweetness again.

Any advice / pointers from fellow DJ's?

 

[PEACEDJ]

Online meeting, isn't good. Seems like she regrets meeting you, at this level you shouldn't try to even be friends with her. Don't waste your time move on man.


(who knows after she as figured that you nexted her she might be comming back moaning for *some*)

 

[Starman]

maybe if she said she didnt mean to sleep with him..meant she regrets it

she didnt mean to sleep with him on the first date (she is trying to say Im not a s1ut..and I dont want you to treat me like one)

 

[MacAvoy]

Online meeting, isn't good. Seems like she regrets meeting you, at this level you shouldn't try to even be friends with her. Don't waste your time move on man.

She doesn't regret meeting with me as she still chats with me all the time and act ****y & funny but she also respects me compared to other guys who feed her BS lines.

Originally posted by Starman
maybe if she said she didnt mean to sleep with him..meant she regrets it

she didnt mean to sleep with him on the first date (she is trying to say Im not a s1ut..and I dont want you to treat me like one) [/B]

She said she didn't mean to sleep with me and may regret it. However an important fact I forgot to leave out was that she just came out of a fairly long relationship with a women as well so she was craving the **** for months.

It may be that she was trying to say that I am not a s1ut however I never treated her like one but I understand how women can think that.

I think where the problem may lie is we chatted for over 6 months while he both had significant others and became frieds. But we also joked around about sex. So how can I overcome this friends bullsnit even though I have been doin things to create attraction?