"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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got clingy at party!

braek12

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alright, so i was throwing this party in my college apartment (5 guys, 3 really hot girls) and a cute drug dealer comes up and tries to sell us x. I bought some and took it, and me and hit it off well. now heres the bad part. she originally said she was going to stay at my house, and then later she decided she needed to leave.

We were hitting it off so well, back rubs, massages, etc, that i really wanted her to stay
When i take x i get kind of emotional, so i kind of started almost-pleading her to stay (come on, im on x you hav eto take care of me, you sure you dont want to stay?) and since shes a lot more experienced with this i think she thought i was a bit clingy.

she got her ride home from my friend and said to him that i got a bit touchy feely, which is why she left. she made sure to give me her non-drug dealer number and told me to call it, but she also gave my friend her number, but he did not show any interest and will never be around again.

Do ysll think i have a chance? maybe she just wated time? or did i **** up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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Just move on, don't do E, do weed.
 

Infamous J

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So many things wrong with this.

You're asking us if you have a shot with a drug dealer.

Move on, and get off the x. You should stay away from all drugs, but at the very least stay off the hard stuff.
 

braek12

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nooooooo

I know, I know. Its bad.

But if I hit it off with a drug dealer, I cant help it!

I was messed up last night...

For real that **** makes you fall in love.

So no one has an idea? I swear this dealer is cute as can be. I have no game! We were both on X and I still couldnt get laid!
 

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braek12 said:
alright, so i was throwing this party in my college apartment (5 guys, 3 really hot girls) and a cute drug dealer comes up and tries to sell us x. I bought some and took it, and me and hit it off well. now heres the bad part. she originally said she was going to stay at my house, and then later she decided she needed to leave.

We were hitting it off so well, back rubs, massages, etc, that i really wanted her to stay
When i take x i get kind of emotional, so i kind of started almost-pleading her to stay (come on, im on x you hav eto take care of me, you sure you dont want to stay?) and since shes a lot more experienced with this i think she thought i was a bit clingy.

she got her ride home from my friend and said to him that i got a bit touchy feely, which is why she left. she made sure to give me her non-drug dealer number and told me to call it, but she also gave my friend her number, but he did not show any interest and will never be around again.

Do ysll think i have a chance? maybe she just wated time? or did i **** up.
1. Try Narcotics anonymous before you start sukking male drug dealers off for a hit of meth.

2. If you fool around with female drug dealers, use a condom, and dont go down without a Dental Dam, or you could wake up with oral sores that are painful and repulsive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon

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JackPrescott said:
1. Try Narcotics anonymous before you start sukking male drug dealers off for a hit of meth.

2. If you fool around with female drug dealers, use a condom, and dont go down without a Dental Dam, or you could wake up with oral sores that are painful and repulsive.

This JackPrescott guy reminds me of me... :up:
 

everywomanshero

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Man, this is like asking us if a hooker really wanted you... who cares! You tried to get the freak out and it failed. At least you played the game and you got 75% of the way there. Better luck next time (hopefully with someone of higher class)
 
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